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Have You Found Your Happily Ever After?

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Happy marriage relationship

No special thing or happiness can beat the feeling of finding someone you think is just perfect for you. It gives you immense happiness and excitement to think that you are going to spend rest of your life with the one you think is just right for you. It is a human attribute to have the constant desire to get loved by someone all the time. We are always looking for people with whom we can build a strong relationship for lifetime and the relationship of a husband and wife is one of the most important and strongest relationships. But, a lot of people wonder and not sure about how they will be able to find someone they love or how they would be able to identify that special someone. In such confusion you make hasty decision for which you regret later. There is a kind of insecurity among people that exists within a lot of relationships. Is the relationship in which you are right now is the one that you desire for? Could you do anything to make it better? Are you really happy with your present relationship status? Are you giving your 100% to make your relationship work better? These are some questions which came in our mind or our friends ask when we are in a relationship.

Getting into a long-term relationship like marriage is a big deal and requires a lot of efforts, understanding, sacrifices, commitments and emotional involvement. I have seen many couples fighting and playing the blame game with their partner to prove that they are right. This is not the right approach to make your relationship work. I am sure that if you are married you must have also gone through the thick and thin of being in a relationship and you must have tried things to make it work. To put the mind of some people at ease and to give them a simple doze to boost their relationship and enjoy it, here I am discussing a few things that have the potential to make it forever for you.

  1. You and your partner respect each-other’s differences. You and your partner have a mutual understanding for each-other. You always mind your words before saying anything because you never want to hurt the other one emotionally.
  2. You don’t need to tell and share everything to your partner, as you have mastered the art of emotional understanding. You always came to know what is going on in his/her mind just looking at your partner. A simple look is enough to understand the feelings.
  3. You are not afraid of talking and discussing your future. You make future plans where he/she is there. You can’t imagine a single thing or plan without your partner in the future. Your all plans are incomplete without his/her presence.
  4. You feel comfortable with your partner. You need not to pretend anything in front of your partner. You don’t need to put a mask on your face or pretend anything in front of your partner. You just behave the way you are without any hesitation.
  5. This is the relationship for which you don’t mind to fight for. You always want to stand for your relationship and ready to face anything and everything to save and protect your relationship. This is something really precious to you which you can’t afford to lose.
  6. You push each other to become and do better things in life. You are a kind of person, who is always working on thing to make your relationship better. You inspire and push each other to pursue the dreams and aspirations.

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Kerala Christian Wedding Rituals: A True Feast For Eye

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Kerala Christian Wedding, Marriage Rituals

Kerala is full of diverse tradition and culture. You can easily find Hindu families, Muslim families and Christian families. These are three major communities in Kerala state. Kerala Christian wedding is very popular across India for its simplicity. For Kerala Christian people, marriages are considered the union of two people predestined by God. These people have very strong belief in God. Generally, wedding of Kerala Christian bride and groom is fixed by their parents. Once both the families are fully convinced and satisfied about the family status and background, then only they fix the marriage. Besides, there are many people who fix the marriage with the help of a mediator or Kerala Christian matrimony sites.  The Christian wedding is conducted in church. Kerala marriage rituals are a bit different from North Indian Christians. Let’s take a look at pre-wedding and wedding rituals of Kerala Christian wedding.

Pre-wedding rituals of Kerala Christian marriage

Engagement ceremony:  The pre-wedding rituals of Christian wedding mainly consists engagement ceremony. Generally, the engagement ceremony takes place in girl’s home. All family members attend this ceremony and give their blessings to bride and groom for their married life and future.

Bachelors & Hens party: As the groom celebrates the Bachelors party with his friends and family members, whereas bride celebrates this party with her friends and family members respectively. Bride’s bachelor party is known as hens party. This is considered as wild party bash without any rule, wherein they celebrate this night with their friends and family members.

Haldi ceremony: In some places of Kerala state, the Christian community also follows the haldi ceremony. Just like Hindu wedding, the Kerala bride and groom are applied turmeric and sandalwood paste. This ceremony is known as Haldaat ceremony. Whereas in Goa it is known as Ross, where the couple is applied coconut paste instead of turmeric paste.

Wedding rituals of Kerala Christian marriage

Holy wedding: On the wedding day, the groom sends a car to bride’s home to pick her up for the wedding venue. He waits outside the church for the bride to accompany her to aisle. The best man of groom welcomes her with a bouquet of flowers. Then the couple walks down and enters the church together. There the priest awaits them and offers them best wishes for their new beginning. The priest then reads the Holy Bible which is followed by sermon and called Homily on the sacredness of the wedding. The couple makes the promises to stay together with each-other through thick and thin and exchange rings.

Mangalsutra ceremony: Once they exchange the rings, the next step is tying the Thali or Mangalsutra. The groom ties the Mangalsutra around the neck of bride. Thali is a leaf shaped gold pendant with a cross embossed on it. Generally, it is connected with either gold chain or necklace. The groom also gifts a wedding saree to bride, which is majorly known as Matrakodi. The mangalsutra and wedding saree are two things which a Keralite bride is expected to keep with her throughout her life.

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Wedding Card? Really Worth To Invest?

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Wedding Invitation Cards- LoveVivah

Last week, when I entered home my mother told me about a wedding card and I was happy to hear this because this is the first marriage card of the season and I was really excited to see who is getting married. I asked my mom, ‘who is getting married?’ She replied that one of my distant cousins is getting married next week. I asked for the card to check the date and venue. I looked for the card in the room and asked mom where she kept that card she told me it was right there on the table.

It was a huge colorful box with proper lock and images. I was really surprised to see this new pattern of wedding card as it was really different and royal card, beyond my expectations and imagination. The card was designed very beautifully and fixed inside a big box with sound effect of ‘Shenai’. It was two-fold box similar to the vanity box, as my sister has already booked the box to keep her jewelry in it. The first fold or layer of the card box was a full of nice design, art work with a caricature of the would-be-bride and groom. The second fold consists the venue, a road map of the location. Even the map was not the simple one, rather full of landmarks and spots indicating with images they both have visited or might not have visited, but marked in a way with their images enjoying food, playing ball game and driving on highway. Even the box was not empty, it was filled with American dark chocolates and chocolate dry fruit. It was really creative and hats off to their ultimate choice of box.

I got more curious to know how much they have invested in such lavish card, as they must have ordered more than 300 pieces and the amount must not be in thousands, but surely in lakhs. I checked online and shocked to know the cost of the card was approximately Rs. 2500 and the total cost would have been for 300 cards was Rs. 7.5 lakhs. It is an eye and mind delight to watch such kind of lavish cards, still I am not very convinced with spending huge amount in wedding cards where people will forget about it after next 15 days. Is it really worth to invest huge money on cards to show off? My answer is ‘NO’, rather you can invest the same money on more constructive things rather than a card of worth Rs. 1000 or Rs. 2000. Here, I want to suggest you some simple ideas to go for some really nice cards, but within your budget.

  1. Buy a card from wholesale market, rather than looking for a vendor in your area.
  2. Go for a card that is creative, yet pocket friendly. A wedding card worth Rs. 50-100 is more than enough to invest.
  3. Even you can go for some personal invitation with simple one leaf card not more than Rs. 50 is good to go.
  4. Make a call to relatives, send messages or make your group to send online invitation.
  5. Get your wedding card created as online mailer as many companies do for their promotional activities and send it to your relatives by investing minimum amount of Rs. 1K to Rs. 2K only.
  6. Go for a mobile app or online card. It will save more money and will be handy. You need not to visit people’s home to deliver card. You can send them online invitation with minimum investment.

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Awesome Gujarati Wedding Rituals You Will Find Nowhere!

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Gujarati Wedding Rituals

Gujrati’s are full of life and they are true heart foodies. Their life is full of colors, excitement and joy. You can’t imagine a single Gujarati wedding is performed simply or without much of fun and fervor. If anytime you will get a chance to attend any Gujarati wedding you can easily imagine that how colorful clothes Gujarati Bride and Groom wear. Here, we are sharing some awesome Gujarati wedding ceremonies which you will surely encounter if you will attend it.

Garbha night: In almost all Gujarati weddings they hold a special garbha session, which is generally attended by all family members and friends. This is really exciting and full filled ceremony. Generally, they organize garbha more than three to four days before the wedding night.

Pithi ceremony: This ceremony is held in both the families a day before the marriage. All close family members and relatives attend this special ceremony. The females of the family apply the turmeric paste on the body of the bride and groom. They believe that turmeric will bring prosperity and wealth in their married life.

Big packet of shaguns and gifts: Gujarati people love to gift their relatives and they take gifting very seriously. For them wedding gifts are like investments. They prefer to gift in cash, rather than kind. Even they believe gifting good amount of money as shagun to Gujarat Bride and Groom in marriage.

Special welcome ceremony of Gujarati groom: In all Gujarati weddings, mother-in-law welcomes the groom in a very special manner. The groom will not be allowed to enter into the wedding venue until the mother of the Gujarati bride pulls his nose. This special ritual is one the most fun-filled ceremony which is generally liked by all in Gujarati wedding.

Dandiya on wedding day: On wedding day as well, they make special arrangements for dandiya in the wedding venue. You can see most of the guests and family members enjoying this special dandiya with family and friends. Even you can see many young hearts enjoying this ceremony to the fullest.

End number of delicacies and starters: As Gujarati’s are foodies and their wedding not less than a feast. In their wedding, you can see end number of dishes and starters. Besides, you can enjoy different sweets and juices. Therefore, attending a Gujarati wedding is not less than big feast bonanza for all food lovers.

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Never Say These Things To Your Spouse When You Fight: Use Stop Button

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Marriage is one of the most blissful relationships. This is not a relationship which is god gifted to you as blood relation, but a relationship which you develop over the period of time be it arranged marriage or love marriage. But, all things have two sides, one is positive and another is not that good. Even in marriage, married couples faces various issues from dealing with day-to-day activities to brutal arguments and fights. While fighting with your spouse you forget about your love and respect, the one thing which overpowers your mind is you want to prove your point right. Therefore, it is important to understand the situation and always fight fair with your spouse. Here are a few things which you should never say to spouse when you are fighting.

Making negative comments about family and friends is always a no-no thing when you are fighting with your spouse. It might irritate him/her more and will add more fire into your arguments. Therefore, try to avoid such statements when you are fighting.

When you are in the middle of any argument or fight, don’t bring the old and dead topics in between. It will mislead you from the main topic and your argument will go in another direction.

Saying anything about the looks and appearance is totally disastrous during the fight. If you will say that he/she looks fat or ugly, it will hurt his/her emotions and will work as sniper.  So, avoid discussing or making comments about looks.

During the fight when you avoid telling the actual problem it is really harmful. If you will not tell the actual reason behind your anger, it will make you feel irritated and agitated. That’s why it is necessary to tell the reason why you get into this argument or the thing which is annoying you.

Most of us make mistake by comparing your couple with other person. It not only hurt his/her emotions, but also gives them a sense that you are not happy with him/her. It might prove more dangerous for your relationship in long term.

Adding comment from your parent’s side or bringing their opinion in your fight can add more fire in your arguments. What your mother thinks over a certain topic or what his father thinks about you/something should not be dragged between your arguments.

No matter how much annoyed you are with your partner and you don’t want to talk with him/her never say that you want to get separate or want to take divorce. Divorce is a big thing and should not be said so easily as a simple way out to deal with the situation.

Never play blame game in your fight. You are not a kid that you need someone to play the blame game to keep your collar clean. During any argument doesn’t play blame game about what you did and what he/she did. Take charge of the situation and avoid blame game.

Don’t make comment that earlier you used to do this, now you are not enjoying the same lifestyle or comforts. It will hurt sentiments of your wife/husband. It might be he/she held himself/herself responsible for this. So making comments about lifestyle and living standard will add more bitterness.

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