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Wedding Tips For Grooms

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Marriage, the event of joy and happiness for many but for two, it is an event of nervousness and sadness too. The bride and the groom are going through so much this day. They need all the tips they can gather and that is what this blog is about with focus on grooms. Grooms have a lot to do and a lot to digest and perform so that they can be appreciated with the honor that has been provided to them. All these points can perfectly aid any groom in any situation any day.

Firstly, remember to always have your own perspective. All this wedding is for you so take part and enjoy. Give your opinion on how things should be done on the day of the wedding. Planning out an entire wedding can be very hectic so don’t let your fiancé decide everything for you. Support her. These days things are changing and the most significant has been in gift giving practices. People nowadays instead of giving random gifts to bride’s and groom’s families, give them what the couple would need in the near future life by having bought things off of the registry prepared by the bride and the groom.

Remember to be and act like a man. Do not taunt your wife with the choices she is making. Understand her and explain her, your opinion in a manly and a respectable fashion. Do not let your wife do most of the work for it can be a burden sometimes. Let her also have a break, cook something for her and most importantly, love her.

            Indian Wedding is such a big event that mistakes are bound to happen and one thing you can do about it is to make sure they do not go out of control, they are well managed and taken care of. Communication is a great skill that will prove to be a handy one. Also give some focus to your own dress. Either a “Sherwani” or a “Kurta” with a “Pagdi”, everyone notices the groom’s dress and wants to scrutinize it. So you better remember to make it worth a wedding dress and wear it with flair.

And on the final day of your wedding, bring out the emotions that have rested in your body. Bring out the sentiments. Remember to take flowers for your bride and have it delivered to her while she I getting ready. That is a moment of personal touch for it is at the end of our lives that we remember these personal touches given to us by our very own loved ones in this lovely world.

Everything To Know About An Indian Wedding

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An Indian wedding may arguably the grandest and the most beautiful wedding in the entire world. The wedding is so huge and important that its preparations begin months in advance. The extravaganza consists of the light shows of dance and music.

Silence is just not the word that defines Indian weddings. This event holds its mark in everyone whoever is connected to bride and groom as a milestone in their lives. Families collect and save their entire lifetime’s savings to make this event of their lives as grandeur as possible. Planning takes place months before the wedding, formally all beginning with the first meet of the bride and the groom.

Nothing less than a majestic festival, Indian weddings are filled with so much happiness and jubilation. Sounds of laughter and people dancing to songs are a few images that come to mind when one thinks of an Indian wedding. All the loved ones of the bride and the groom shower their blessings upon the newly wed through gifts of love and care. And how can one talk about an Indian wedding and not talk about the food. A true foodie’s paradise, each wedding consists of the most lavish of the feast that can be provided to Indian people. Many of the gifts given to the couple contain jewelry or metal ornaments.

Firecrackers light up the skies above the wedding ceremony. The people dance to the skies and throw money in the air as a custom that can later be collected by the poor. Once the groom and the bride reach the wedding, they are made to sit on god-like thrones to display ultimate platform.

And then all this is followed by the most important part of the entire Indian wedding, the saath phere. It is the event where the bride and the groom swear to spend their entire lives together as one soul and will continue to do so even in their rebirth and afterlife. Once the bride and the groom have gone around the sacred fire exactly 7 number of times, the “Pandit” announces them husband and wife. It doesn’t all end here. The last ceremony of wishing the bride goodbye to her previous family and welcoming her to her new family is the ultimate shower of tears and emotion. Mixed feelings of happiness and sadness lurk in the environment.

Due to the richness in the culture of India, each religion and state has its own practices but the above description forms the basis of them all. Please get more matching profile with Indian matrimony service at Lovevivah.

Facing Early Marriage Problems With Proper Mindset

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Getting married and living happily ever after is every man and woman’s dream ever since childhood. Many due to some unfortunate reasons, these end up getting divorced. There are many factors at play for such a consequence. The biggest being lack of communication, abuse in not just physical manner, financial problems and there lie many more issues.

Lack of communication is such a strong factor that sometimes it alone can destroy families and marriages. People are just so busy these days that it is almost impossible for them to take out a minimal amount of time from their schedules and devote it to their families. IT is because of lack of communication that people don’t share problems and it begins to eat them up from the inside leading to depression and sadness. When communication miscarries, that is when marriage will fall.

When problems arise due to financial conditions too become a big problem. This can actually very well be the sole cause of the entire problem. Proper financial planning must be done, and people and couples need to discuss the all kinds of money practices that are running in the family. Talking is the best solution. Keeping quiet will only make it worse. Times have changed now. Women are as ahead in the century as men and therefore must be allowed to contribute to the success and the flourish of the family. This leads to better financial standing and lesser tension among the family. This is what will avoid the unfortunate divorce in the family.

Once a family of two has kids in their life, the responsibilities multiply like a million times. Children play a very important role in the entire family’s ideals. No matter the age, they are an integral part of the family and must be involved in major decision making. These children need support and proper advice of their parents and they do not need to see the parents fighting for it can be the worse influence on a child which carries on to the next generation. Unfortunately this is all what they need but do not get every time. Both parents need to be equally involved with their children or else there can be partitions that form, or else lack in this aspect may result in dislike and ultimately display signs of divorce.

In addition to these points, there are a lot more things that need to be considered for the marriage services to prosper and flourish in a way that every marriage should. If it is not done then this may result in an end in marriage.

Choosing The Perfect Honeymoon Destination

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We all remember how difficult it was to plan out our entire wedding. Well, planning out your honeymoon destination is just as difficult but guaranteed a lot more fun and excitement. Just simply relaxing either on the beach or just on your bed after months and years of intense preparation of the wedding is going to feel just heavenly and soulful. But for all this, one needs to make sure that the right choice is made for the perfect honeymoon. There are some very important points that must be kept in mind when it comes to picking up the honeymoon destination that suits the needs of both.

First and foremost factor is the climate. Which kind of climate is preferred by both people? Choosing this aspect will immediately narrow down your choices and will help you select better. Also remember to check the temperature at the time of your visit. Budget is one big factor. The amount you will be able to spend depends on your final destination. If money is a limitation then consider places nearby. There are always these small getaway places in countryside that can serve greatly as honeymoon places. Local beach town or road trip can be great!

Most couples want to stay in hotels but they can be a burden on your wallet as well. Sometimes living locally gives one a lot more non-touristic trip which is much more appreciated by the people than the ones who stay in cities and hotels and visit the “World-famous” monument or anything like that. Next it comes down to if you are a relaxing and lazy person or full of energy and adventurous person. If you want something just for sightseeing then choose a location that is more likely excluded from the city but if you are adventurous then choose a place a huge variety of activities are offered for that might please you more.

As a kid, we all had our must see places like The Eiffel Tower, the Empire State Building, the Great Barrier Reef but what better option but use your honeymoon to visit some of these places. Having some great monumental on your trip adds a lot more value to their entire honeymoon trip. But also remember that too much research sometimes spoils the entire vacation. Some parts of the trip must be kept unexpected for surprise is always the best treat. Keep your eyes always fresh and your body for some excitement and let the destination unravel its beauty before you.