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Top Fashion Rules for Would-Be-Groom to Look Perfect

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As a groom when you will enter into the marriage hall all eyes will be on you, therefore, it is important that you should look astonishing on your wedding day. You should always compliment your wife with your looks and styles. So, if you are worried about your looks and style for groom’s wedding day, follow our rules and look stylish. Here, we have covered a few rules which you can follow during your wedding and before wedding to look stylish.

Buy your wedding attire early: To avoid any last-minute hassle and glitches, it is always better to buy your wedding dress at least a month in advance. It will help in saving you from last-minute rush. You need not to worry much about delay in the delivery date or any last-minute alteration because you have enough time to get it fixed before the wedding date. Check the fitting of your wedding attire: Always check the fitting of your wedding attire while buying the suit. Your wedding suit or sherwani should fit well. Check the fitting, cuts, shoulders, sleeves and comfort while buying your wedding suit. Always remember that you are going to wear it for longer hours, so it should be well fitted and comfortable at the same time. Besides, you will be center of attraction in the wedding hall, so even a small issue in the fitting might spoil your wedding look.

Look for the comfort while buying your wedding dress: You should always focus on the flow and comfort of your wedding dress while buying it. It should be very comfortable and easy-going with your body. If you feel irritation or discomfort, then it is better to buy a wedding suit or sherwani that is more comfortable. You will not feel relaxed and stay at ease if your wedding suit is not comfortable. Always pay attention to the comfort level while buying and taking the trial of your wedding dress.

Buy according to your body type: The key to sharpen your wedding looks is to buy a wedding dress according to your body type. Don’t buy something because it was looking great on the model or any actor. Buy your wedding dress because it suits your personality, increases your charm and not because it was looking nice on someone else.

Customize your wedding attire: It is always better to customize your wedding attire. You should ask for alteration and changes in your wedding attire according to your personality and taste. It will enhance your style and persona. You should always remember that your wedding dress style should be very much your own. If you want to have special kind of buttons on your wedding suit or some special kind of work on the sleeves or shoulder of your sherwani, then don’t hesitate to ask for such alterations in your wedding dress to customize it.

Buy trendy accessories: To complete your wedding looks, accessorize your wedding dress. Buy some nice and trendy accessories that will go well with your wedding dress. Buy a perfect watch, cufflinks, handkerchief, socks and tie that will go well with your wedding dress and compliment your looks.

Go for some matching shoes: Don’t forget to buy the matching shoes with your wedding attire. Matching shoe is very important when it comes to your wedding day. You can’t go wrong with anything on your wedding day. You should always buy a perfectly matching shoe for your wedding day.

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Celebrate Your First Dhanteras After Marriage, The Inaugural Day of Diwali Festival

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Dhanteras, is also popularly known as Dhantrayodashi. It is one of the most important and auspicious Hindu festivals celebrated in India. This auspicious day is celebrated three days before the Diwali festival. If this is your first Diwali after marriage with your in-laws, then you must be very excited and busy in planning for the festival. This special festival has its own importance and you plan a lot of things for this festival.  On this day you pray to Goddess Lakshmi to fill your life with prosperity and good fortune. As a ritual of this Dhanteras festival, people lit the house with lamps and lights and pray to Goddess Lakshmi. There are many things which you can also follow and make this Dhanteras festival memorable with your in-laws. Here, we are sharing some simple ideas to celebrate this Dhanteras in style.

Make Rangoli: This is a very beautiful tradition of this festival. You can make Rangoli in your home or in puja ghar or at the entrance of your house as tradition. It is the way to welcome Goddess Lakshmi to your home by making beautiful and colorful designs. It is also believed that it will keep the ill spirits away from your home.

Buy something special for your in-laws: This is your chance to give something special to your in-laws on this auspicious festival. Try to buy something unique and useful for them. On this Dhanteras you can also gift them idol of Lord Ganesha or some other God or Goddess. Besides, you can also gift them something else which you think will be liked by them. If budget is not a constraint for you, you can also buy something in gold and silver for them as gift.

Wear something trendy yet traditional: You can’t imagine a perfect celebration without a party perfect dress. Don’t forget to buy something traditional yet trendy for you and other family members as well. If you have not bought something special for them, then you can give them a traditional dress on this Dhanteras. You can wear some traditional saree or latest suit on the day to make it special.

Arrange a small family party: You can also plan a surprise party on the day of Dhanteras. Prepare special food for puja and dinner as well. Don’t forget the taste and interest of family members while making the food list. No puja and celebration is complete without sweets. Make some traditional sweets. You can also organize some special games/competition or Bhajan Sandhya to make it special.

Light up your home with lamps: Light up your home with traditional lamps and lights. You can use different lamps of different shapes and sizes. You can buy some designer lamps as well. These earthen lamps are available in different sizes, colors and shades. Don’t forget to light up every corner of your home with these beautiful lamps and lights.

Organize special Lakshmi Puja: On the auspicious occasion of Dhanteras you can also organize the traditional Lakshmi puja to welcome Goddess Lakshmi to your home. You can make footprints of Goddess Lakshmi with rice flour and vermilion as tradition. Light up thirteen earthen lamps as tradition in your Puja Ghar as tradition and offer sweets and food to Goddess Lakshmi to receive her blessings.

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Do You Think That Searching A Life Partner Is Really Tough?

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Have you crossed the age of 24 years and your whole family and relatives are after your life to get married? Do you want to look for a compatible and understanding partner, but not sure about how to search for a life partner? Searching a compatible life partner for kids is a war-level task for parents and they leave no stone unturned to find the most suitable partner for their child’s marriage. They spread this news with everyone that they are looking for a partner for their kids. “Bete/beti ki shaadi karni hai, koi rishta batana.” But do you think that finding a life partner with this conventional method is that easy? The whole process of arranged marriage is so tiring, cumbersome and full of hurdles from the day one to the final marriage day. Here, we are covering some topics giving jittery nights to all parents, but how matrimonial sites have made their life easy.

Searching a partner is “Total Siyapa”. In our country marriage is all about confusion and hurdles. Finding a life partner is not easy and simple. When you start your search, you come to know that it is really tough to find someone meeting your requirements with the help of relatives, friends and middle man. Rajni Kaur, Delhi, said, “Main apne bete ki shaadi ke liye ladki dekh rahi hun, ladki search karna total siyapa hai”. According to her, it is really tough to find someone who is equally compatible. But, now she has created a profile for her son on a matrimonial site, after meeting more than 10 girls referred through personal relations. She further added, “Saying no to someone from a known family is more difficult, rather than saying no to someone you meet through matrimonial site.”

Hello ji, fix ho gayi shaadi? This is one question which haunts all parents when they start the search which all friends and family members are aware of. Whether you are attending someone’s wedding or a family function, one question which everyone around will ask is  –  “Fix ho gayi shaadi?” It is something like their son or daughter is the only one left out without marriage. So, this question haunts them like anything. But, if you register with any matrimonial site you are not supposed to give reply to such questions because you are searching the partner at your ease where rest of the world is not involved in the search process. Moreover, you are not bothered to tell them about your search.

Tough call to take: When you start the partner search then it is really tough to decide and take a call to meet someone. The first step of meeting someone is really difficult, because you don’t want to meet each and every one. It is really difficult to decide who will be the perfect partner for their kid. Kamal Kumar Saini, Aligarh, said, “Humko to shaadi ke liye milne jane main badi tension hoti hai.” He further added, “ Kisi ko na bolna acha nahi lagta, aur jis se baat karo wo hi milne ke liye bolta hai. Bada mushkil hai sab.” So, as a parent you too don’t feel good to say no to someone because you don’t want to hurt the sentiments of others. But, if you register with a matrimonial site, you can meet only those whom you want to meet. You don’t need to meet someone if you are not fully convinced. Here you have freedom to ask for photographs, more information and talk to them online. So, if you are not happy with the details you can easily say no to someone and you are not required to meet someone.

Call, call and call everyone: The only thing you are doing on weekend is either making a call to someone regarding the marriage proposal or you attending a call from others for the same. This is really difficult to be on call all the time on weekends. But, if you register with matrimonial site, you make a call to only those whom you find suitable for you. You are not required to make random calls to get the basic information.

Meet the most eligible one: If you have registered with any of the matrimonial site you are not required to meet everyone, but you can meet only those who are meeting 100% of your requirements. Here you are not forced to meet someone because he is friend of your relatives or someone known. If you search a life partner through traditional way, you are expected to meet even those whom you do not find eligible, just for the sake of some middle man involved in the process. But, the best thing with matrimonial sites is you are not forced to meet someone if you don’t wish to. Sapna Mudgal, Mumbai, said, “I am fed up of meeting people on weekends as if I am showpiece. After registering with matrimonial site, my parents don’t force me to meet everyone as we first look at the details, and then only make a call to meet someone.” She also added, “Shaadi karna jaruri hai per inta bhi nahi ke har kisi se milte raho.”

Now it is tough to find someone: “Apni biradari mein to aap ko pata hi hai kitna mushkil hai shaadi karna is age mein”. This is one sentence which you all must have heard atleast once in your life if you have gone through the process of arranged marriage. If you reject four-five proposals, then you are labeled as someone who has high demands or people will comment like, “dimag kharab hai inka, inko koi nahi milega is tarah se shaadi karne ke liye.” But, thanks to these matrimonial websites which are savior for all. You can reject as many profiles as you want, till the time you don’t find someone most suitable. Moreover, you are not required to feel bad about anything.

Caste has everything to do with marriage: In arranged marriage caste plays a significant role. Most of the people want to find a suitable match within their caste. There comes a point when you don’t find a match within your caste and you open up for a prospective groom or bride from other castes, but hesitate to share the same with others. In such situation, matrimonial site helps you to search a life partner in different castes without any hurdle. These matrimonial websites offer you unlimited suitable matches in all castes. If you start searching a partner in another community and  your family and friends get to know, the first thing you will listen from them is “Inko shaadi nahi karni, bekar ka tamasha kar rahe hai, pahle hi pasand kar rakha hoga koi bachchon ne.” So, all this makes things more complicated for parents and even for the prospective bride or groom. On the other hand, these matrimonial sites don’t require such formalities except of filling some basic information to register with them.

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Ladies, Do You Have These Expectations from Your Fiancé?

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Courtship period in any relationship is one of the most beautiful times. You enjoy being in that relationship and you enjoy every bit of it. You want to spend a lot of time together. Either you are on phone or messaging something or other with him during the whole day to stay connected. Over a period of time, you feel connected and close to him. Eventually, you develop some expectations and expect him to fulfill those expectations. It is very much common in a relationship to expect things from your partner. Here are some common expectations ladies have from their fiancé during courtship period.

Instant Reply: This is something really common and most of us expect this from our partner. Whenever you sent him a text message or while chatting with him online you want him to reply back to you instantly. But, you should always remember that he has some job liabilities, so it is not possible that he will reply to you instantly all the time. So, in case he sends you a delayed reply, then don’t get annoyed with him, rather try to understand his situation.

Patient Listening: You always want him to listen to your thoughts calmly, even if you are talking something that doesn’t interests him. You expect him to understand your point and not to lose his temper because you are talking something which he doesn’t like. So, if you expect him to be patient with you, then he also expects the same from you. He is also new in this relationship, he too needs time to understand your thoughts and get used to it. If he is talking something which you don’t like or disagree, then put your point constructively, rather than losing your temper.

Well-behaved and courteous Behavior: You always want him to be courteous and well-behaved with you and with others as well. You never want your man to shout on you over anything. You want him to be polite and supportive. You always want him to behave well with you and never lose his temper and humiliate or insult you.

Deep level of understanding: For building a strong relationship, it is important that you build a strong understanding with him. Good level of understanding is important for a healthy relationship. You always want him to be understanding; similarly he wants the same from you. He also expects you to be supportive and understanding.

Respect for your parents: You always want that your partner should respect your parents. You expect your future husband to respect and love your parents the way you do. Similarly, he also expects you to respect his parents. Therefore, to establish a good relationship it is important that you respect each-other’s parents.

Punctuality: Are you planning to go out for dinner or for a movie? You want him to reach on time and don’t let you wait for a long time. You want him to value and respect your time and always reach on time if you make a plan. This is your responsibility as well to value his time and reach on time whenever he makes any plan. Always value the time because it shows how important the other person is in your life.

Loyalty and commitment: You always want him to be committed and loyal in this relationship. You never expect him to flirt with other ladies. You never want him to check out other girls when you two are together. You always want him to remain loyal and never cheat you under any circumstances.

Mutual Respect: For a strong relationship it is important to give respect to your relationship and your partner. You should always respect your partner not because he/she is your husband or wife, but as a person he has something valuable and important. Respect him/her for the qualities he/she has to enjoy a blissful relationship.  If you expect him to respect you, always remember that he too expects the same from you.

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Going to Tie the Wedding Knot Soon? 5 Things You Should Know as Groom-To-Be

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You must have heard a lot about what a bride should do and what she should not do before and after marriage. The web world is flooded with such information. But, have you ever thought about that this phase is equally complicated and transforming for a groom too. As a groom, guys also feel the similar kind of nervousness and anxiety. However, your wedding day and life after wedding is unpredictable and you can’t do much about it apart from planning for your better future. But, a few things you can’t avoid and ignore if you are about to get married soon.  For all those men who are going through the same phase and feeling a bit nervous about the new beginning of their life, we are here sharing some important things which no one else will tell before your wedding.

A few things are not in your territory: You can’t do everything on your own. It might be you are good at managing the finance or organizing things, but it doesn’t mean that you are good at everything. It is always better to divide the work between the two of you. If you think that your wife is good in bargaining, let her do the shopping to save some extra money. Don’t force yourself or don’t force her to do things which are not your forte. Never hesitate to take help of your partner if she is good at something.

Be clear about your finances: This is another thing you should consider before and after marriage as well. It is good to spend lavishly on your wedding and live your dreams. But, it doesn’t mean that you spend all your savings on your marriage or planning your honeymoon. You are supposed to plan a lot of things after marriage as well and for that you need money. Be clear about your expenses and savings. If you save some money religiously on monthly basis, then make it clear to your wife as well to avoid any issues. Besides, it will also help in planning things in a better way.

Don’t make rigid rules: Marriage is not about making rules or forcing your rules/lifestyle on others. It is true that as humans we all have some expectations from our partners. But, it doesn’t mean that you force your pre-decided rules on your partner. Don’t make rigid rules, be flexible in your approach. Always remember that you two are different personalities, with different lifestyle and mindset. So, if you force yourself on her from the day one, then you will increase the tension in your relationship. Therefore, it is very necessary you give her enough time to settle down with you and get habitual of this new lifestyle to make her comfortable, rather than forcing things on her from day one.

Don’t force your wishes: Having some expectations from your partner is quite natural. But, if you have some unrealistic expectations, then you will land this relationship in trouble. It is always better to discuss your ideas and expectations with your partner in more constructive manner instead of forcing your partner to meet your expectations. If you are keen about something and your partner is not agreeing over your idea, it is better to find a midway to stay happy.

Give freedom & space: This is another thing which nobody will tell you before and even after your marriage. For a healthy and strong relationship, it is important that you give freedom and personal space to your partner. Sharing your things and day-to-day happenings with your partner is a good habit. But, minimizing the freedom and personal space of your partner is not good. Everybody has their own lifestyle, bonding with friends, family and cousins. If you expect that she will cut off from all her relationships, this is not possible and not even good for her as an individual. Spying on your partner, checking her phone calls, messages and other personal things will add bitterness in your relationship and will not let you grow as life-partners. If she wants to go out for shopping with her friends, let her go and enjoy the day. Give freedom and space to your partner to enjoy the blissful marriage.

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