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Be Selective, Don’t Accept All Interest on Your Matrimonial Profile

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Once you attain a certain age in our country or we call it marriageable age, then your whole family and whole world around you is bothered about your marriage. All your relatives, friends and family members keep on asking about when you will marry. One of my friends Rakshita, told me that she has recently created a profile on matrimonial site. She was very happy after creating the profile because now she is not required to meet everyone. She is also feeling happy because she is receiving a lot of interest on her matrimonial profile. But, she shared her experience and told me that she is very selective in her approach and doesn’t accept all invitations. She mentioned that she is taking all steps to stay safe on matrimonial site. She also shared how she is managing her profile to get the maximum out of her registered profile. I am here sharing some of the tips shared by her to manage the matrimonial profile and managing the interest received on the profile.

Check the profile: Always check the profile before you accept any interest or invitation from other registered member. Don’t accept any invitation just for the sake of it. It is not a dating or social networking site where every interest/invitation is important and you must accept all to increase the number. No, this is not the case of matrimonial profile. Before accepting any profiles always check it.

Read all details carefully: When you receive any interest from any of the registered member, before accepting or deleting the request read all the details carefully. Read the profile thoroughly, don’t just overlook the profile or see through the photographs only. Read every mentioned detail carefully.

Family status/background: This is something very important which you should never overlook when you receive any interest. Always check the family details. Try to find out more details about his/her parents, sibling, location and other important details. It will give you a glimpse of his financial and social status which is an important thing to consider before marriage life.

Check education as priority: Most of the people don’t mention all important details while registering with matrimonial sites. Education is one such thing which you should not ignore or overlook before accepting the interest in your profile. Nowadays, all of us look for a partner who is highly educated and settled. If you too have certain criteria about education, then check this as your priority.

Find out about common interest: This will help in checking the compatibility quotient of you two. While going through his/her profile try to find out the common interest or hobbies. It will help in understanding his/her lifestyle, interest, personality and social life. Compatibility is very important for this relationship and a lot of things based upon it after marriage. However, there is no surety that the common interest will result in yes for the marriage, but it is important to create a common platform to begin with.

Think about your priorities: Before accepting any profile interest, think about your priorities and interest. It is important that you make a check list of your priorities. What are you looking for in your life partner? What are your priorities of life? Do you want a professional or you are looking for someone really beautiful/handsome or something else. Make a checklist of your priorities and select or reject a profile based on that. It will make your partner search simple and easy. You will not waste time in meeting the wrong people.

Find out the seriousness: While going through the profile always check the seriousness of the profile. Read all the mentioned details, description about self, parents and other things. It will give a sense about seriousness of that person. It will also make you understand the genuineness of the profile.

See all photographs: Before selecting or rejecting any matrimonial interest, always check the photographs. Try to find out whether the photographs are original or crafted. It will also help in understanding the personality and lifestyle of the person. Also check is he/she looking of same age in the photographs that is mentioned in the profile details.

Know more about partner preference: Once you receive any partner interest on your profile read more about the partner preferences. It is important that you should be accepting the one who is meeting your partner preference or you are fitting into his/her partner preference. It will increase the chances of positive response. If you are not meeting his/her partner preference or he/she has sent you interest after viewing your photograph or educational details or something else. Find out such points and make your decision accordingly.

Consider the age: This is another important decision making factor. Always check the age of the profile before accepting the interest on your matrimonial profile. If he/she is too young or in the age of 22-23, there are chances that he/she has registered for the sake of registering not for marriage. Another thing to consider is how older or younger he/she to you. If the age gap is higher, there are chances of further complications. So, think about the prospects before accepting any matrimonial profile.

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7 Things to Avoid on Matrimonial Sites Before Going on First Meeting

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Nowadays, matrimonial sites have replaced the aunties and uncles who used to play the role of marriage maker or mediator between the two families. These matrimonial websites are simple to use.  Anyone can easily create their matrimonial profile and search a partner. But, the main concern of all registered members of these websites is to find the genuine and authentic profile. When you find a matrimonial profile matching your partner preference criteria, the first thing you do is to contact that person. But, there are a few things you should keep in mind before fixing your first meeting with that prospective partner.

  1. Verify the profile: Once you receive an interest on your profile from a registered member, always verify the profile. It is very important for your own safety and security. Before accepting any matrimonial interest, you should always verify the profile details. Check whether the details mentioned in the matrimonial profile are true or not.
  2. Check the genuineness: This is another big thing, which you should keep in mind while accepting any interest request. Always check the genuineness of the profile. Try to find out whether all the details mentioned on the profile like contact details, address, permanent address, email id and social medial details are true and genuine. If the website has some verification tool, use that tool. matrimonial-sites-meeting-3
  3. Check the authenticity of photographs: A matrimonial profile with photograph receive more interest as compared to a matrimonial profile without photographs. Most of the people update their photographs on these sites with their family, friends, vacation, office and other. But, it is important that you check the authenticity of these photographs. Try to find out whether these photographs are genuine or edited by some other tool to beautify. Also find out whether these photographs are recent or older. It will also give you a sense about the genuineness of the profile.matrimonial-sites-meeting-5
  4. Visit social media profiles: Most of the people are very active on different social media websites. While checking any matrimonial profile, visit the social media profiles of that person. Don’t forget to visit the Facebook, twitter, linkedIn and other social media profiles. It will help in understanding his/her activities, interest and kind of person he/she is at personal level.
  5. Are you meeting the whole criteria: You must have visited his/her profile before accepting the matrimonial interest? It is always good if you read the partner preference well in advance. Try to analyze whether you are meeting his/her partner preference and vice-versa.  Don’t accept the meeting invitation because he/she looks good or financially well-off. Always pay attention to your choice and expectations from your future partner. A small hasty decision can create a lot of problem for you in the future. So, be specific with your preferences. Meet only those who are meeting at least 80%-90% of your partner preferences.matrimonial-sites-meeting-1
  6. Don’t get too personal before meeting: If you have done all the verification part and you are satisfied with his/her details, then you can take the next step. If you find that person genuine and reliable, then there is no harm in chatting with that person. But, always be smart in your conversation. Don’t just get swayed away with emotions and share too much personal things and information with him/her. This thing you should avoid in your initial conversations. Sharing your personal details can be used negatively and can be manipulated in long run. Therefore, to avoid any issue in future, just pay attention to your words and share only required information.matrimonial-sites-meeting-2
  7. Don’t meet until you are not confident: Whether you are chatting with him/her from last two weeks or two months, don’t jump into meeting decision too soon. Unless or until you are not fully sure don’t agree for the meeting. There are many people who just say yes to meet everyone without even analyzing their profile. They even hardly bother to check the authenticity of the profile and just say yes for the meeting. But, this is not the right approach. These websites offer you unlimited features and services, use them to the maximum and stay safe. Even if you decided to meet that person, don’t go alone. Tell about this meeting to your parents or ask your parent or sibling to accompany you to the meeting place to avoid any unwanted situation.

 

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Maximize Your Partner Search On Matrimonial Site, Use These Simple Tricks

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While registering with matrimonial sites your main objective is always to find a perfect life partner. These matrimonial sites are very much in trend and nowadays youth is more inclined towards these matrimonial websites because of their features, simple and easy registration process. These websites offer you profiles of brides and groom of almost all religions and castes. You can search a profile based on your partner preference. But, many people find it difficult and complex to find a partner on these sites. These sites are really helpful in finding the compatible partner if you maximize your partner search. Here, we are sharing some tips to optimize your matrimonial profile.

Use filters: While creating the profile you must have noticed that these websites have different filters. You can use these filters to search the partner according to your preferences. These filters are perfect for specifying your search criteria and getting the best search results meeting your partner search.

Be specific: At the time of filling the information, be specific about your requirements. Don’t write and mention things for the sake of writing it. Your specific information and details will help in finding the perfect partner.

Fill more information: It is always recommended to fill right and accurate information. All these websites have different fields that every member is supposed to fill. You are required to fill information about self, family, educational details, professional details, your interest and partner preferences. Don’t put minimum information as it might appear to the other person that either you are hiding things or you are not serious. Even with minimum information there are chances that you will get lesser interest.

Don’t send invite to everyone: As sending invitation is a good feature to connect with other registered members. But, don’t over use it by sending invitation to every member, who is even meeting the basic details like desired age or education. This way you will waste your time and increase your frustration.

Select only you think have potential: While viewing the contact or selecting someone, you should always first see the whole profile and check details. Compare these details with your requirements and if it is meeting your requirements, then only view the contact details as in most of the sites you can view the contact details only if you are a paid member.

Don’t narrow your search: Always remain open-minded and don’t narrow down your search. It is always better if you fill more details in your partner preference and be open with different things. For instance, if you have mentioned in your search that you are looking for bride extremely fair, only 5’7 tall, MBA/Engineer, from Aggarwal community. There are chances with such narrow criteria you will find very limited matches. But, if you go for wider search criteria it will help in getting the better search results.

Be a paid member: If you are not able to find the match or you don’t have that much of time to devote on these matrimonial sites you can become a paid member. You can anytime avail their paid membership as these memberships offer you plenty of benefits. Some membership plans also offer you special assistance like these websites assign their executives to handle all the search and communication on your behalf. He/she manages your matrimonial profile and sends all communication on your behalf. These plans are more helpful as they boost your search and you get more refined results.

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Be Cautions While Chatting On Matrimonial Site With Future Partner

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If you have registered with some online matrimonial site and are seriously looking for a life partner in that case you should ways pay attention how you are presenting yourself online. Your online profile is your face for rest of the users, whatever you will mention there, write there people will believe it. You should always pay attention to your words, whatever you are writing or telling things to people while chatting with someone matrimonial profile. When it comes to talking about marriage or talking with someone for marriage it is different has its own importance. There is a fine line between introducing yourself to someone and imposing yourself to someone. You should never forget that whatever you will say to someone, it will create your image in the mind of other person. Here are some tips how you should chat with other members on matrimonial site.

  1. Don’t give too much information in the first conversation. Don’t share to personal information.
  2. Start your chat on lighter note with simple things. Don’t jump on to things too early. Don’t ask too personal questions too early.
  3. Don’t tell minute details to anybody in the initial chat.
  4. Don’t share negative details with him/her in your initial conversation.
  5. Don’t talk for long hours and too frequently into the initial phase. Don’t show that you are not too busy and all time accessible and available.
  6. Take breaks between you conversations. Don’t be the first one to start the chat always, let the other person start the conversation at times.
  7. Don’t be too tempted to say Hi all the time whenever you see him/her online. Don’t show that you are over interest and over excited to talk to him.
  8. First two –four conversations should be about common interests, hobbies and other common things. Don’t start conversation which is very much personal.
  9. Don’t share you numbers in the first or initial conversations. It is always better not to ask contact number or share contact number till the time you don’t build a certain level of trust.
  10. Don’t ask for meeting him/her in the initial days. It is better you give some time to each-other. Know each-other well, be comfortable and build your trust, then only ask the other one to meet you.
  11. Don’t get into any arguments and fiery discussions. It is better to talk something common and avoid any kind of unwanted tensed situation.
  12. Don’t start any physical conversation unless or until you are not very sure that you are taking this relationship forward and you are very much serious about it.

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