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Do You Think That Happy Marriage is A Myth?

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When you got married you are in a confusing state of mind because you feel happy and at the same time you are scared of uncertainty. You must have heard a lot of things about marriage and relationship before marriage as well. You must have seen many people cribbing about that there is nothing as such a happy marriage, rather happy marriage is a myth. You just make compromises and live with it. Marriage is nothing, but a lifelong commitment with tons of responsibilities. But, actually, this is not right. This is how you perceive things or how you react over things. If you believe in yourself and you know how to make it the most special relationship, you are on the right track. Let’s take a look at some of the pointers which people make to support the idea that happy marriage is a Myth.

 You fight over everything: You fight over each and everything with your spouse. You fight for some   really nonsense things. Don’t take these witty fights to your heart, rather enjoy these fights and take these fights as opportunity to get closer to your spouse. Avoid saying anything touchy, fight fair with your spouse to strengthen your relationship.

You are required to share everything: This is not the worst, but the best part of marriage. It brings you closer and makes your relationship strong. You love to share things with your spouse because it connects you with him/her. You love to share things, it is never a compulsion, but your choice.

No ME time: This is another big jittery thing for married people. Most of the people think that after marriage you will never get a ME time. But, this is not true. If you have good understanding with your spouse and you respect each-other’s individuality you will surely get ‘ME’ time to spend the way you want.

No night outs with friends: This is another big myth linked with marriage. You will never be able to enjoy night-outs with friends. This is not true, you can anytime plan a night out with friends after marriage as well. Marriage is not end of the world or your freedom.

Extended family means more burden: There are many people who believe that if you will get married, you will have to take care of two families. Yes, this is true. But think differently that you will have more people to share your happiness and more people to rely upon. You can celebrate all festivals and happy moments with your family and never feel alone. So, it is not a burden, besides your chance to establish good relationship with new family and build life long relationship.

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To Make Your Marriage Work, Never Say These Things To Your Wife

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If you have been married, no matter from how many years, but you must have learnt that you should not say a few things to your wife. There are certain things which you should never say to your wife to avoid misunderstanding and clashes. A relationship of married life between husband and wife is always built on trust, respect and your faithfulness to each-other. But, if these three things are missing between you, then for sure you are feeling the heat in your relationship. As a husband you too don’t expect a few things from your wife. Similarly, your wife too has a few expectations from you. There are a few things which your wife would never love to listen from you and should never say to your wife. Let’s discuss a few things which you should never say to your wife at any point of time.

You are looking old: No matter how many times she told this in a day that I am getting older or I am too old to do this. But, as a husband you should never say this to her. She is always beautiful to you and will remain beautiful. Don’t hesitate to say this to your wife that she is always dear to you and she is the prettiest woman for you.

My mom used to do it differently: This is one phrase which no woman likes to listen from her husband. They never like if her husband compares her from his mother. It might be your mom used to do some things differently and even better than your wife, still you should never compare her with you mother. It will irritate her and even discourage her to do that thing because you always compare things.

Comparing your wife with other woman: Never compare your wife with other woman. Be it the smallest things like her hairs, dressing sense or anything. It hurts their emotions and feelings and gives them a sense that you are not happy the way she is. Therefore, avoid such nasty comparisons.

You don’t respect my parents: No matter how hard you are trying to establish a cordial relationship between your parents and your wife, but always avoid saying statements like she doesn’t respect your parents. It might be she is also trying to be good with your parents, but it doesn’t mean that she disrespect your parents or doesn’t bother about them. It will further increase frustration in your relationship.

Can you please find this for me: When you are tempted to say this statement, ‘can you please find this for me,’ always hold for a second and think that are you not able to find this yourself. Have you tried your level best? Don’t give her an impression that you are not able to do even a single thing yourself. It will irritate her more because it is equally tough for her to manage everything at home single handedly.

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Have You Found Your Happily Ever After?

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No special thing or happiness can beat the feeling of finding someone you think is just perfect for you. It gives you immense happiness and excitement to think that you are going to spend rest of your life with the one you think is just right for you. It is a human attribute to have the constant desire to get loved by someone all the time. We are always looking for people with whom we can build a strong relationship for lifetime and the relationship of a husband and wife is one of the most important and strongest relationships. But, a lot of people wonder and not sure about how they will be able to find someone they love or how they would be able to identify that special someone. In such confusion you make hasty decision for which you regret later. There is a kind of insecurity among people that exists within a lot of relationships. Is the relationship in which you are right now is the one that you desire for? Could you do anything to make it better? Are you really happy with your present relationship status? Are you giving your 100% to make your relationship work better? These are some questions which came in our mind or our friends ask when we are in a relationship.

Getting into a long-term relationship like marriage is a big deal and requires a lot of efforts, understanding, sacrifices, commitments and emotional involvement. I have seen many couples fighting and playing the blame game with their partner to prove that they are right. This is not the right approach to make your relationship work. I am sure that if you are married you must have also gone through the thick and thin of being in a relationship and you must have tried things to make it work. To put the mind of some people at ease and to give them a simple doze to boost their relationship and enjoy it, here I am discussing a few things that have the potential to make it forever for you.

  1. You and your partner respect each-other’s differences. You and your partner have a mutual understanding for each-other. You always mind your words before saying anything because you never want to hurt the other one emotionally.
  2. You don’t need to tell and share everything to your partner, as you have mastered the art of emotional understanding. You always came to know what is going on in his/her mind just looking at your partner. A simple look is enough to understand the feelings.
  3. You are not afraid of talking and discussing your future. You make future plans where he/she is there. You can’t imagine a single thing or plan without your partner in the future. Your all plans are incomplete without his/her presence.
  4. You feel comfortable with your partner. You need not to pretend anything in front of your partner. You don’t need to put a mask on your face or pretend anything in front of your partner. You just behave the way you are without any hesitation.
  5. This is the relationship for which you don’t mind to fight for. You always want to stand for your relationship and ready to face anything and everything to save and protect your relationship. This is something really precious to you which you can’t afford to lose.
  6. You push each other to become and do better things in life. You are a kind of person, who is always working on thing to make your relationship better. You inspire and push each other to pursue the dreams and aspirations.

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Wedding Card? Really Worth To Invest?

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Wedding Invitation Cards- LoveVivah

Last week, when I entered home my mother told me about a wedding card and I was happy to hear this because this is the first marriage card of the season and I was really excited to see who is getting married. I asked my mom, ‘who is getting married?’ She replied that one of my distant cousins is getting married next week. I asked for the card to check the date and venue. I looked for the card in the room and asked mom where she kept that card she told me it was right there on the table.

It was a huge colorful box with proper lock and images. I was really surprised to see this new pattern of wedding card as it was really different and royal card, beyond my expectations and imagination. The card was designed very beautifully and fixed inside a big box with sound effect of ‘Shenai’. It was two-fold box similar to the vanity box, as my sister has already booked the box to keep her jewelry in it. The first fold or layer of the card box was a full of nice design, art work with a caricature of the would-be-bride and groom. The second fold consists the venue, a road map of the location. Even the map was not the simple one, rather full of landmarks and spots indicating with images they both have visited or might not have visited, but marked in a way with their images enjoying food, playing ball game and driving on highway. Even the box was not empty, it was filled with American dark chocolates and chocolate dry fruit. It was really creative and hats off to their ultimate choice of box.

I got more curious to know how much they have invested in such lavish card, as they must have ordered more than 300 pieces and the amount must not be in thousands, but surely in lakhs. I checked online and shocked to know the cost of the card was approximately Rs. 2500 and the total cost would have been for 300 cards was Rs. 7.5 lakhs. It is an eye and mind delight to watch such kind of lavish cards, still I am not very convinced with spending huge amount in wedding cards where people will forget about it after next 15 days. Is it really worth to invest huge money on cards to show off? My answer is ‘NO’, rather you can invest the same money on more constructive things rather than a card of worth Rs. 1000 or Rs. 2000. Here, I want to suggest you some simple ideas to go for some really nice cards, but within your budget.

  1. Buy a card from wholesale market, rather than looking for a vendor in your area.
  2. Go for a card that is creative, yet pocket friendly. A wedding card worth Rs. 50-100 is more than enough to invest.
  3. Even you can go for some personal invitation with simple one leaf card not more than Rs. 50 is good to go.
  4. Make a call to relatives, send messages or make your group to send online invitation.
  5. Get your wedding card created as online mailer as many companies do for their promotional activities and send it to your relatives by investing minimum amount of Rs. 1K to Rs. 2K only.
  6. Go for a mobile app or online card. It will save more money and will be handy. You need not to visit people’s home to deliver card. You can send them online invitation with minimum investment.

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Vidaai Ceremony: An Important Ritual in Indian Wedding

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Wedding Vidaai Ceremony- LoveVivah

Indian weddings are known for their lavish arrangements and different rituals. You can’t imagine a single wedding without loads of rituals and big celebrations. The day of wedding is filled with different ceremonies and wedding rituals, where family and friends come together to wish the couple for their happy married life. Most of the family members and even the bride and groom are also busy in performing various rituals. The memories of wedding are sweet and remain for forever. But, vidaai ritual is one such ceremony, which has mixed emotions like a mix of joy and sorrow. Let’s take a look at some important aspects of vidaai ceremony.

Vidaai ceremony symbolizes the final stage of wedding where the bride’s parent bid farewell to their daughter.

bride’s parent bid farewell post wedding

 

It again symbolizes the beginning of her new life where she has to maintain a balance between her new life and old life.

Bride beginning of her new life

 

Now she steps out from the comfort zone of her parent’s house and get ready to take the responsibilities of her new family.

Bride steps out parent’s home

 

The girl throws back the handful of rice and coins three times before leaving her parent’s home. This act symbolizes that as she wishes that per parent’s house always remain prosperous.

Bride throws back handful of rice

 

After the bride’s parents give her daughter’s hand to their son-in-law, it symbolizes that he will take care of her and always be there to support her and guide her throughout the life.

As final ritual of the vidaai ceremony brothers and cousins of bride pushes the car from behind-as a ritual bespeaks them wising her luck and pushing them towards the joy and prosperity in life.

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