Tag Archives: happy couples

Have You Found Your Happily Ever After?

Leave a reply
Pin It

Happy marriage relationship

No special thing or happiness can beat the feeling of finding someone you think is just perfect for you. It gives you immense happiness and excitement to think that you are going to spend rest of your life with the one you think is just right for you. It is a human attribute to have the constant desire to get loved by someone all the time. We are always looking for people with whom we can build a strong relationship for lifetime and the relationship of a husband and wife is one of the most important and strongest relationships. But, a lot of people wonder and not sure about how they will be able to find someone they love or how they would be able to identify that special someone. In such confusion you make hasty decision for which you regret later. There is a kind of insecurity among people that exists within a lot of relationships. Is the relationship in which you are right now is the one that you desire for? Could you do anything to make it better? Are you really happy with your present relationship status? Are you giving your 100% to make your relationship work better? These are some questions which came in our mind or our friends ask when we are in a relationship.

Getting into a long-term relationship like marriage is a big deal and requires a lot of efforts, understanding, sacrifices, commitments and emotional involvement. I have seen many couples fighting and playing the blame game with their partner to prove that they are right. This is not the right approach to make your relationship work. I am sure that if you are married you must have also gone through the thick and thin of being in a relationship and you must have tried things to make it work. To put the mind of some people at ease and to give them a simple doze to boost their relationship and enjoy it, here I am discussing a few things that have the potential to make it forever for you.

  1. You and your partner respect each-other’s differences. You and your partner have a mutual understanding for each-other. You always mind your words before saying anything because you never want to hurt the other one emotionally.
  2. You don’t need to tell and share everything to your partner, as you have mastered the art of emotional understanding. You always came to know what is going on in his/her mind just looking at your partner. A simple look is enough to understand the feelings.
  3. You are not afraid of talking and discussing your future. You make future plans where he/she is there. You can’t imagine a single thing or plan without your partner in the future. Your all plans are incomplete without his/her presence.
  4. You feel comfortable with your partner. You need not to pretend anything in front of your partner. You don’t need to put a mask on your face or pretend anything in front of your partner. You just behave the way you are without any hesitation.
  5. This is the relationship for which you don’t mind to fight for. You always want to stand for your relationship and ready to face anything and everything to save and protect your relationship. This is something really precious to you which you can’t afford to lose.
  6. You push each other to become and do better things in life. You are a kind of person, who is always working on thing to make your relationship better. You inspire and push each other to pursue the dreams and aspirations.

LoveVivah.com Uttar Pradesh matrimonial site offers brides and grooms resumes for marriage. Search perfect spouse from Aadhaar verified profiles.

This entry was posted in Relationships and tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , on by .

Marriage Is Just A Status Or A Relationship To Enjoy? Things You Enjoy Being Married

1 Reply
Pin It

Married life couple

What is marriage? Why should you get married if everybody else is crying over this relationship? Why marriage is so important that most of us never forget to ask the younger generation what are their future plans to settle down. Marriage is a special relationship and blissful. It gives you a sense of responsibility and a feeling of bonding for the rest of your life. If you too are afraid of getting married and think that it is not worth to get married. Here, we are sharing some pointers with you to change your opinion and make you think once again to change your mind.

  1. Marriage is all about building a new relationship with someone who is not a stranger to you, but going to be everything in life.
  2. You and your husband is a team. When a situation comes where you need to act as a unit, in that situation you act a true team and think and act like a team not as individuals.
  3. You can depend on him/her for anything and everything in life. If you are stuck in somewhere or you want someone to share something, then he/she is the one with whom you can discuss and share everything without giving a second thought.
  4. You love being together and enjoy each-other’s company. This is one thing, which is enjoyed by most of the couples. Togetherness is a kind of sense that gives you strength to face everything in life when you are together as a unit.
  5. You enjoy the differences between you. There is no couple who enjoys 100% similarity. You and your husband are two different people from two different worlds. Therefore, differences are very common and obvious in a relationship. So, being married doesn’t mean that you agree over everything, but it is more about enjoying the differences and staying together.
  6. You love each-other for all good reasons and at the same time never forget to tell the mistakes of the person if the other one is wrong. This is called the true love for each other.
  7. If you are annoyed with your spouse and in no mood to talk to him, but if you get a sense that he/she is not well or facing some problem, you just forget everything and try your level best to help the other one out.
  8. As a couple you respect, understand and build faith on each-other to enjoy your married life.
  9. Emotional bonding is equally important as physical closeness. You develop a sense of emotional connection over the period of time.
  10. You always want to do a lot of things together as couple, which is really important for a healthy relationship.
  11. You want to have your own family, your kids and you love to pamper them and enjoy the parenthood.
  12. Marriage gives you a sense of maturity and makes you a better human being.
  13. You always give enough space and freedom to your partner to let him/her enjoy the individuality.
  14. Now you have bigger family and more common friends to celebrate special occasions and reasons.

LoveVivah.com matrimony website gives online profiles of grooms and bride for marriage. You’re your soulmate with thousands for verified resumes.

This entry was posted in Relationships and tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , on by .

Revealing Your Heart? 10 Topics You Can Discuss With Your Spouse In First Week Of Marriage

2 Replies
Pin It

Spouse in First Week Of Marriage

It feels amazing when you got married to someone, but at the same time it is a bit uncomfortable too if it is arranged marriage. As you are not very comfortable with the other one and most of the time you are not sure which topics you should discuss with your spouse or which topics you should avoid discussing with. To build a strong and healthy relationship it is important to communicate and have healthy conversation with your spouse. The troubles arise in any relationship when there is fatigue, frustrations and minimum or no communication. To avoid such situations, it is better if you communicate well with your spouse from the day one of your marriage. Here, we are sharing 10 topics you can discuss and talk with your spouse in the first week of marriage.

You can discuss things and some sweet memories about your wedding day and wedding preparations. You can tell him/her about your guests/relatives or some interesting things about the different family members and some stories before the wedding day.

What are the five things or goals you want to accomplish in the next five years together? Be it a professional goal or a personal goal or about buying something or planning a family. You can discuss this with your spouse.

If you are not worried about making money much because you are financially stable enough, or you don’t want to continue working after marriage then what would you do in your free time? How you will keep yourself busy and occupied for rest of the day.

What is the first thing came to your mind on the very next day of marriage? Are you feeling nervous or excited or mixed feelings? Discuss as a couple how are you feeling with him/her?

Do you want to want to start business or want to do something of your own after marriage? How will you manage and go for that new venture? Do you have enough money and resources for it?

In what ways your relationship with your parents will change after marriage? Be honest with him/her about this. If you think that you can’t leave your parents because of health and other reasons then try to make your point understandable to your spouse.

Is there something special you want to share with him/her after your wedding day? Is there any special incident, talent or something else you want to share it with him/her?

What do you consider to be your greatest strengths and weaknesses? Discuss this with your spouse and be open to listen and understand it. Because it might be your weakness is his/her strength that will make you stronger as couple.

Discuss about any health issues, allergy or something else with your spouse. It will help him/her to deal with the situation in a better way if any situation of emergency came.

You can share pre-wedding and post-wedding images and discuss things about it. You can also let your spouse know about your relatives in these photographs and tell about their place and importance in your family.

LoveVivah.com matrimony services India gives online profiles of brides and grooms. Search your future partner for wedding.

This entry was posted in Relationships and tagged , , , , , , , , , , on by .

Some Simple Ways To Strengthen Your Relationship With Your Husband

Leave a reply
Pin It

5

Are you the one who is always worried because you think there is something missing in your married life? Most of the time you just think your husband is a changed man and he doesn’t love you in the same way he used to do. Do you agree that you find your relationship dull and boring and it is just like a mandate task for you which you are bearing as responsibility. If your situation is similar to what we mentioned over here, let’s take a U turn and start a fresh. Follow these simple ways to strengthen your relationship with your husband.

Listen to each-other: To strengthen your relationship with your husband, it is important that you always listen to his thoughts without interruption. Work on your listening skills, sometimes listening is more important than giving solutions. Therefore, always listen to his ideas and thoughts.

Go for a morning/evening walk: This is another way to spend some quality time together. If you both are working and hardly get time during the day to make a call or interact with each-other it is always good if you make a habit of going for morning/evening walk together. While walking, you will get enough time to spend some quality time with him.

Do some nostalgic exercise: Spare some time and do some activities which you use to do together as couple in the initial days or years of your marriage. If you used to go for a weekend outing, plan out something and revisit your favorite place. If you have some other things that you used to enjoy together, make a plan to relive those moments to strengthen your bonding.

Fix your ‘WE’ time every day: It is important to complete our routine tasks, similarly it is important to spare some time as a couple and fix a ‘WE’ time. If you have kids or in-laws in the family, then get free from all your important tasks like cooking, or making bed for kids, etc. and enjoy some ‘WE’ time together every day be it for ten mints chit-chat or watching his favorite series together.

Don’t behave like an evaluator:  You are his wife, not his boss or mother that you keep on evaluating or criticizing him all the time. It will further add bitterness in your relationship. As a couple, we expect support from our partner not criticism.

Mind your words: Whenever you are talking with your husband pay attention to your words. Before saying anything to him, think twice and evaluate your words. If you are so tempted to say something harsh and bitter, change the track of your conversation to avoid any argument or be diplomatic with your words.

Say something positive every day: It will add more positivity in your relationship. Try to make it a habit of saying something positive to him every day. Be it a very small thing like, “You are just awesome.” These kinds of small gestures will help in bringing more positivity in your relationship.

Be naughty with him: All the time behaving like a matured one is really boring. To add some spark in your life, get naughty some time. Whenever you get time, get naughty with him after all he is your husband, there is no need to be decent and modest with him all the time. It will give a new life to your boring relationship.

This entry was posted in Relationships and tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , on by .

Real Time Relationship Hacks Of Happy Couples: To Make Married Life Perfect!

6 Replies
Pin It

Happy Married Couple

Once your honeymoon is over and you are back from your tinsel town story to the real world, you feel that life is different and something missing in your married life. You like doing something, but your spouse doesn’t like it. Sometimes deciding on one simple thing gets really difficult and harder. Well, you are not the only couple who faces such things, almost every married couple goes through these situations. While some work out and find the way out to make their married life better and happier and other just give up and stop trying. There is hardly any marriage that has not faced any hitches. But, there is always a way out to make it happier and strong. Here are a few useful tips to make your relationship strong and perfect.

Think before ask him/her to change: It might be you are not happy with his/her habits, but before asking to make changes in his/her habits, it is better if you think about five different things which you like in him/her. If you are the one who is thinking about making some changes, find out ways to accept the differences and respect it.

Make occasions and non-occasions big deal: It is not really necessary to celebrate the occasions in full swing, rather to enjoy your married life you can celebrate your weekends to feel special. Celebrate non-occasion in the same spirit to feel special and make it special.

Giving space to each-other: Couples love to do many things together to increase their bonding, but it doesn’t mean that you force fit yourself into everything that is related to your partner and his/her life. Give some space to him/her to make your relationship more friendly and accommodating.

Respect the differences: There is no single couple who has never faced any differences in-between. It might be you like something that your partner doesn’t like. So, try to accept the differences and respect it. Be it dressing habit, eating habits or your something else, it is important that you respect it and live happily with it.

Become BFF: Couples are not just the life partners, but they are everything to each-other. Besides respecting and loving each-other, it is important that you become the best friends. It is important to be-friend. Listen, think and understand the point of view of your partner and try to think that he/she too has a life and he/she is not just your partner, but your friend as well.

Kids doesn’t mean end of married life: Kids complete your relationship and you become more responsible as couple. It doesn’t mean that after having a kid your married life or love life ends. To keep your love life and relationship going, keep the fire of romance alive in your marriage. Go out for dinner, or go on some short vacation to spend some quality time together.

There is no perfect recipe, keep trying: There is no set formula for a perfect and happy married life, it is important to keep trying till the time you don’t find a solution or your own happiness recipe. Give some time to each-other and build good understanding over the period of time.

Indulge in new things in your ‘WE’ time: Be it five years or ten years you are in this relation, try and indulge in new things and explore new things as couple. Explore new places, try some new food. It will bring newness in your relationship. Always keep some “WE” time to enjoy the company of each-other.

LoveVivah.com marriage matrimony portal gives Indian brides and groom profiles for wedding. Register now for selecting future partner with verified matchmaking.

This entry was posted in Relationships and tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , on by .