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Some Simple Ways To Strengthen Your Relationship With Your Husband

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Are you the one who is always worried because you think there is something missing in your married life? Most of the time you just think your husband is a changed man and he doesn’t love you in the same way he used to do. Do you agree that you find your relationship dull and boring and it is just like a mandate task for you which you are bearing as responsibility. If your situation is similar to what we mentioned over here, let’s take a U turn and start a fresh. Follow these simple ways to strengthen your relationship with your husband.

Listen to each-other: To strengthen your relationship with your husband, it is important that you always listen to his thoughts without interruption. Work on your listening skills, sometimes listening is more important than giving solutions. Therefore, always listen to his ideas and thoughts.

Go for a morning/evening walk: This is another way to spend some quality time together. If you both are working and hardly get time during the day to make a call or interact with each-other it is always good if you make a habit of going for morning/evening walk together. While walking, you will get enough time to spend some quality time with him.

Do some nostalgic exercise: Spare some time and do some activities which you use to do together as couple in the initial days or years of your marriage. If you used to go for a weekend outing, plan out something and revisit your favorite place. If you have some other things that you used to enjoy together, make a plan to relive those moments to strengthen your bonding.

Fix your ‘WE’ time every day: It is important to complete our routine tasks, similarly it is important to spare some time as a couple and fix a ‘WE’ time. If you have kids or in-laws in the family, then get free from all your important tasks like cooking, or making bed for kids, etc. and enjoy some ‘WE’ time together every day be it for ten mints chit-chat or watching his favorite series together.

Don’t behave like an evaluator:  You are his wife, not his boss or mother that you keep on evaluating or criticizing him all the time. It will further add bitterness in your relationship. As a couple, we expect support from our partner not criticism.

Mind your words: Whenever you are talking with your husband pay attention to your words. Before saying anything to him, think twice and evaluate your words. If you are so tempted to say something harsh and bitter, change the track of your conversation to avoid any argument or be diplomatic with your words.

Say something positive every day: It will add more positivity in your relationship. Try to make it a habit of saying something positive to him every day. Be it a very small thing like, “You are just awesome.” These kinds of small gestures will help in bringing more positivity in your relationship.

Be naughty with him: All the time behaving like a matured one is really boring. To add some spark in your life, get naughty some time. Whenever you get time, get naughty with him after all he is your husband, there is no need to be decent and modest with him all the time. It will give a new life to your boring relationship.

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Things To Keep In Mind While Planning For Engagement Ceremony

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Engagement ceremony is the first grand function, which is generally conducted before the marriage. It has its own importance or you can say a kind of rehearsal ceremony before the actual wedding ceremony. You really want to make it big and memorable. But, most of us are clueless and don’t know how to start and where to start the preparations. You never want to miss anything and leave anything unattended to make it really special. Let’s take a quick look at the checklist of things you should keep in mind while planning for engagement ceremony.

  1. First make a checklist of people/guest you want to invite in the party. If you want to make it big, then only plan for large gathering otherwise make it a family affair by inviting the family members only.
  2. Fix a date of engagement ceremony and discuss it with family members of both the families to find out the availability and suitability.
  3. Think with calm mind. Don’t get stressed & over tensed for preparation. Plan with calm mind.
  4. You can also hire a wedding planner, so he can ease the burden and will take care of each and every preparation from engagement ceremony to wedding ceremony.
  5. Fix your budget in advance. It is important factor in the planning section to fix your overall budget.
  6. Stick to your budget and plan everything within your budget. If you will shot up your engagement preparation budget, it will affect your wedding budget as well.
  7. Pick a venue which is decent, convenient to commute and above all should be within your budget.
  8. If both the families are arranging and investing in the arrangements, discuss the share of contribution in advance to avoid any misunderstanding and arguments later.
  9. Decide whether you want to inform the guests through phone call or via sending them formal invitation card.
  10. If you are planning to get invitation cards printed, print them in advance as you need some time to distribute the cards or you can hire an agency for the same.
  11. Ensure that your invitation will reach all the guests well in advance, so they will not miss the date.
  12. Decide the engagement ceremony menu. Kind of starters, main course menu, cocktails and other food items to make him understand your requirements.
  13. Select a good decorator in advance to avoid last minute hassle. If you want to create a theme based decoration or some special kind of decoration, tell this to your decorator or ask him to show some of his work before finalizing.
  14. Make a check list of gifts you are going to give the family member to the bride/groom and guests.
  15. Buy the gifts in advance and decide a maximum budget for shopping of gifts.
  16. Assign the different task to different family members for that day to ease your burden and to avoid any glitch.
  17. Don’t forget to buy/get stitched your dresses in advance. If you want to hire some designer to prepare special dresses for whole family members then don’t wait too long to finalize the designer.
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Real Time Relationship Hacks Of Happy Couples: To Make Married Life Perfect!

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Once your honeymoon is over and you are back from your tinsel town story to the real world, you feel that life is different and something missing in your married life. You like doing something, but your spouse doesn’t like it. Sometimes deciding on one simple thing gets really difficult and harder. Well, you are not the only couple who faces such things, almost every married couple goes through these situations. While some work out and find the way out to make their married life better and happier and other just give up and stop trying. There is hardly any marriage that has not faced any hitches. But, there is always a way out to make it happier and strong. Here are a few useful tips to make your relationship strong and perfect.

Think before ask him/her to change: It might be you are not happy with his/her habits, but before asking to make changes in his/her habits, it is better if you think about five different things which you like in him/her. If you are the one who is thinking about making some changes, find out ways to accept the differences and respect it.

Make occasions and non-occasions big deal: It is not really necessary to celebrate the occasions in full swing, rather to enjoy your married life you can celebrate your weekends to feel special. Celebrate non-occasion in the same spirit to feel special and make it special.

Giving space to each-other: Couples love to do many things together to increase their bonding, but it doesn’t mean that you force fit yourself into everything that is related to your partner and his/her life. Give some space to him/her to make your relationship more friendly and accommodating.

Respect the differences: There is no single couple who has never faced any differences in-between. It might be you like something that your partner doesn’t like. So, try to accept the differences and respect it. Be it dressing habit, eating habits or your something else, it is important that you respect it and live happily with it.

Become BFF: Couples are not just the life partners, but they are everything to each-other. Besides respecting and loving each-other, it is important that you become the best friends. It is important to be-friend. Listen, think and understand the point of view of your partner and try to think that he/she too has a life and he/she is not just your partner, but your friend as well.

Kids doesn’t mean end of married life: Kids complete your relationship and you become more responsible as couple. It doesn’t mean that after having a kid your married life or love life ends. To keep your love life and relationship going, keep the fire of romance alive in your marriage. Go out for dinner, or go on some short vacation to spend some quality time together.

There is no perfect recipe, keep trying: There is no set formula for a perfect and happy married life, it is important to keep trying till the time you don’t find a solution or your own happiness recipe. Give some time to each-other and build good understanding over the period of time.

Indulge in new things in your ‘WE’ time: Be it five years or ten years you are in this relation, try and indulge in new things and explore new things as couple. Explore new places, try some new food. It will bring newness in your relationship. Always keep some “WE” time to enjoy the company of each-other.

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10 Tips To Make Your First Year Of Marriage Happier And Easier

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The first year of marriage is the hardest and rockiest in all. You have many realistic and unrealistic expectations from your partner and you always want that all should be fulfilled. The first year of marriage is very crucial as you land into new responsibilities and above all the responsibility to survive together. This important change in your life comes with some unexpected challenges. Here are some easy tips for newly wedded couples to make their first year of marriage happier and easier.

  1. Believe in your partnership: It is really important that you believe in your partnership and faith and trust in your partner. Always remember that only wife or only husband can’t make this marriage successful. It is important to divide all the work and manage everything together.
  2. Be on the same page always: While discussing important issues and things, always be on the same page. When you discuss things about buying a new home, finance, buying a new car, planning family and other important things, you should be on the same page.
  3. Be realistic in your expectations: Be realistic in your expectations from your spouse. As a newly wedded couple, you have a lot of expectations from your spouse, but at times these expectations become the reason of unnecessary arguments. Don’t hesitate to compromise to stay happy if not exactly meeting the expectations.
  4. First year is transitional: The first year of marriage is the most transitional. Always get ready to learn, understand, compromise and adjust with each-other. Always work on your difference and think like a team. You meet new people and build new relationships, therefore it is important to accept the changes happily.
  5. Avoid the blame game: You are a team, don’t behave like a kid and start the blame game, when you are arguing with your spouse. Accept the difference and avoid blaming your spouse for each and everything.
  6. Give some time to each-other: Don’t jump into conclusions very soon. Give some time to each-other. Allow each-other to get adjusted with the changes and new set-up. Don’t try to change each other or expect the other one to change from the day one of marriage.
  7. Get ready to accept & improve: Acceptance is really important for a successful marriage. It is important that you accept your spouse the way he/she is. Always get ready to accept the change and improve and make changes in your habits for a healthy relationship.
  8. Accept your new family: Don’t forget that you have not married to him/her only. You have married to a new family altogether. It is important that you accept the new family and get involved with them. Don’t treat them as your in-laws, but as your family.
  9. Lear to fight fair: For a healthy relationship it is equally important to have some fighting sessions. It is important that you fight with her/him, but for the right reason. Don’t argue or fight for wrong reasons or don’t fight for not so valid reasons.
  10. Learn to forget and forgive: For a happy relationship it is important that you learn to forget things and forgive your partner. Don’t stick to any issue for longer time. Try to forget things quickl and behave normally with your spouse. It is important for a healthy relationship.

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Simple Ways To Look Like A Glam Diva At Home After Marriage

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The would-be-brides make a lot of efforts to buy their dresses what they are going to wear after marriage. They invest a lot of time and money to buy their dresses. It is really important for a newly wedded bride to look gorgeous and beautiful at home after marriage. But, not everyone is so thoughtful to decide it perfectly what they are going to wear post-wedding. What are you going to wear at home post-wedding? How will you balance your looks when you are home? Let’s take a look at five interesting ideas which can change the way you look at home after marriage and turn you into a stylish desi bahu.

Go for jackets: If you want to wear your favorite sleeveless blouse or suit, but not very sure whether your in-laws will like it or not? Then, without annoying them, you can wear your favorite dress by mixing it with some stylish shrug or jacket. Wear your favorite top, shirt, sleeveless suits with shrug or jacket. This way you will not annoy your in-laws and at the same time you can wear your favorite dresses too. Slik jackets go well with your suits and some ethnic wear. You can also go for some printed or embroidered jackets as well to add a jazz to your dress.

Look stylish in tunics: If you are not sure wearing that short tunic alone and don’t want to offend your mother-in-law, go for some stylish legging or jegging with your tunic. You can anytime mix your tunic with these stylish ankle length or knee length leggings. You can also wear stockings with your tunic to look stylish.

Stunning stoles: If your in-laws insist on wearing a dupatta all the time at home, you can look stunning by giving a twist to your boring dupattas. You can wear some colorful, vibrant and bright stoles and wear them with your suits. You can tie up your stoles in different ways to look fashionable even when you are at home. A multi-colored stole look gorgeous with a plain kurti and blue jeans. A multi-color or black stole can be paired with almost all colors of kurti.

Long skirts: A full-length long skirts paired with a collared short kurti will be ideal for a lazy Sunday. It is not too casual or too stylish if some of your friends or relatives drop in without any prior intimation. Skirt also let you breathe freely and move with ease, while giving you all desired stylish looks.

Gorgeous kurtis: If you don’t want to wear that traditional salwar kameez daily, switch to some stylish and beautiful kurtis in different styles. A chines collar kurti, kurti with flair or short kurti, the options are plenty to choose from. You can pair these stylish and chick kurtis with leggings and jeggings. You can also accessories these kurti’s with stylish earring, bangles and nice rings.

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