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BUILDING A STRONG LONGLASTING MARRIAGE LIFE

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The need in today’s time is more of a hurry to get married. People might think that only love is enough for a long lasting marriage but they are wrong. There are many more factors that contribute to a long lasting happy marriage. Once the couple gets married, due to worldly attractions, they lose their connection with the family and are not able to spend quality time with their children.

The primary ingredient that’s required to have a long lasting marriage is happiness. This mostly comes from acceptance and understanding one another. The bond between the two people must share some sense of loyalty. It is a way of showing your devotion to your partner. Even though couples face huge amount of problems in their lives, they should not let it affect their personal relationships with one another. There must be trust and respect here. Thoughts and opinions must be shared.

Each couple goes through similar tests. Problems like finance, misunderstandings occur as time passes by. It comes down to a matter of who can stand up after falling for we have all heard the saying that quitters never win and winners never quit. Temptation is another thing that is problematic. But it is only due to the happy memories that a couple shared during their lifetime that they gain the strength the fight the temptation to leave their partner and have an affair. If done properly, long lasting marriage can be enjoyed as well. People should talk before sleeping and discuss before leaving for their busy everyday schedules. Cater to your children’s needs and do not ignore them in the midst of work and tension. Long lasting marriage can only be built if everyone speaks their heart out in every scenario and doesn’t hide anything from anyone.

Marriage is not to be taken for granted. It is a gift and a blessing in disguise from god itself. It must be respected for it holds a deep spiritual connection with one’s own being. Feel every moment with your family. Spend it with joy! Remember it takes years to build trust and honesty but only a matter of a few seconds that it can all go to trash and the marriage to fail.

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BALANCE BETWEEN MARRIAGE AND WORK LIFE

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The concept of balance between married and work life is prioritizing the two: work and personal life. There is no perfect remedy for getting that perfect balance. Its aspects shall be different for each of us because each of our lives is completely different from one another. Setting an exact number of hours for work and personal life is like living life as a machine with no excitement. Life is more than that.

 

But there are two main key concepts that apply to us all. These are success at work or at personal life. These two are like two sides of the same coin. Some people feed off of just one of the sides and it is these people who are not happy in their lives. One who would understand these two concepts has half understood what it means to have the balance. Each of us defines success at personal lives differently for some it is happiness, for some it is love.

But in today’s time, the corporate world is very demanding. The life at work has completely evolved in a not so good way. Within all this competition, it is the employees whose life goes out of balance. This imbalance causes divorces, stress, infertility etc. We need to strive for work life balance. Also we need to balance our mental and emotional health as well which better enable an individual.

 

But today, organizations have begun to realize the importance of work life balance and hence have begun to provide special programs for its employees to help them maintain a proper balance which includes a friendly environment and atmosphere as first and foremost. Employees can now work on their own schedule and practice their own ways of doing work. Some generous companies also involve families by giving paternal/maternal leaves and extra off days. Employees are now considered assets of the company.

 

Maintaining a work-life balance is hard but doable with some steps.

 

1. Plan: plan your day and think in advance about the things that need to be done in both personal and professional fields.

2. Set priorities: prioritize what is more important and what things can wait.

3. Don’t go overboard: Don’t plan way too much or think about doing or handling many tsks in a day as that always ends as a debacle.

4.  Production: Be as productive as possible. Work while work, play while you play, it is the way to be happy and gay.

5. Disagreeing: Learn that you always have an option to say no and don’t have to go with whatever your boss is telling you to do.

6. Perfection: Remember this is life and you are a human. Mistakes happen but don’t be let down.

7. Married life: Give your wife the time she deserves. When at home, try not to bring up the topic of work and do not let it worry you for that will intrude with your life.

 

Slowly and slowly, this entire concept is finding its place within the society. Each individual’s role is very important in this network for we are all connected some way or the other. One person’s wrong doing can be bane for other person. Also remember, it is not a one day deal, these points must be kept in mind every day for proper effectiveness.

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Family Relations After Marriage

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“The love of family and the admiration of friends are much more important than wealth and privilege.”  –Charles Kuralt

What exactly is the meaning of Family? The true meaning of family lies where there is love, trust, communication, sharing, understanding, freedom of speech, caring, sharing. A true and a happyfamily is one that embodies these values and practices them in their everyday lives. But in today’s society, things have changed. These habits and qualitieshave disappeared from our families. Some bad habits have been adopted that have completely misled our attitude towards the members of our family. n

There are many factors that are to be blamed here. One of the main reasons for such formality among families and family members is the lack of appreciation and the emotional contact. It is these qualities only that brings family members together and forms a bond of personal touch and provides the family emotional support to each its member.The problem arises when this quality disappears from the families. What happens is the need for such support does not go away but the member seeks to external society to fulfill this support that he or she requires. It leaves the person mentally much more vulnerable and he or she feels much more broken down and lonely in life.

The second most important reason is the over desire of the family for financial growth or simply put, want of more and more money. In this the entire family indulges deeply in trying to make more money and in this process leaves all the family values behind for gaining worldly possessions. Here, making more money is not the problem but surely, lack of family unity is!

In trying to bring the families back together, one must keep certain things in mind. The first and foremost is the presence of trust and honesty among each other. Secondly, constantly staying in touch with the family in terms of contributing to family problems, and generally talking about family discussions about important matters and talking about future planning is a very good way to go ahead.  And last but not the least, make sure to provide ample amount of love to the person whom who swore and agreed to stay with the rest of your life, for that is the main reason why two of you are together. Do not talk about each other’s failures but embrace each and every other quality with happiness.

Talking in overall, maintaining familyrelationship is a huge responsibility that must be undertaken with great respect and honor. And it is not only the responsibility of the oldest member in the family to take care of these qualities but rather each individual’s responsibility to make sure that a peaceful harmony is maintained within their families. As long as each member plays his part perfectly, nothing can stand between your family and happiness.

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Ideal Life Partner @Lovevivah.com

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From the very beginning of anyone’s existence we all seek our own perfect life partner who will love us, understand us and stand right beside us in all our happy and sad moments. A true life partner is one who not only fulfills all the above qualities but goes the extra mile to bring about the happiness and jubilation in an environment that is much desired by their spouse.

 

Nowadays, major concern that rests within our entire society and community is how to find that perfect life partner.Finding your own life partner is a huge a huge responsibility, as it is not just a matter of a day but an entire lifetime that one has to spend with the other and making sure that the partner is right is crucial or else living that life becomes really hard and one is left with not much option but helplessness. Marriage also decides the destiny of not only the people who got married but all those who are closely related to them as welfare concerns arise. That is in order to avoid any sort of tragedies, a person has to be very careful while choosing a life partner; lot of factors needs to be judged. The most important thing to remember is that no matter how perfect your “Ideal” life partner may be, we are normal human beings and we all have both good and bad qualities as opposed to what the society poses for us as a perfect man or woman.

 

Each one of us has different standards, idea and confidence. So the first thing men/women should be concerned about while choosing their life partner is the existence of the element of truth between each other. Both the partners need someone who can tell the truth about their entire lifetimes because when choosing an ideal partner, honesty must be a top priority. An ideal life partner should also share some of the other person’s interests whether it is socializing or meeting people. Similarly qualities like outgoing and friendly if shared can greatly add value to the relationship.And lastly he or she must be supportive in any way that is required by their spouse. Whether it is a major life decision or any kind of judgment or choice that one must make, support and advice can go long way in life and also boosts confidence in the other person.

 

So, as long as you can see or find such qualities in your ideal partner there is no other quality or aspect that needs to be judged whether it is financial status or how one looks, For it won’t be looks that will help you make your life decision but support and cosmopolitanism that will. Please get registered on Lovevivah.com for perfect life partner!

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Tips To Finding Your Soul-mate

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It is every girl’s and boy’s dream to find their soul mate who will love them, understand them and most importantly be their best fried for their entire lifetime. For some people it just purely fate that brings them their perfect lover together but for some people it does not come that easy. Every individual in this world is different and has completely different expectations of how they imagine their perfect life partner to be but some general tips that should work for everyone can help a lot and go a long way ahead in life.

The most important thing is to keep in mind that when you are trying to find your perfect love partner, you must keep an open mind and not judge anybody based on any kind of prejudices whether they are social or based on caste, color or anything like that. Also make sure that whenever you interact with the person, be open for you do not want to start a relationship based on false images of one another and then regret making any serious life decision. The other way he/she expresses himself/herself the most is through their body language. Body language can signify so many things about a person. Body language can radiate one’s confidence, one’s attitude and one’s demeanor. Your own composure should still remain intact. Remember to express yourself gracefully and elegantly.

Each human is like an onion, with many layers within. So it is best to come to know of a person from their core and for that to happen, a lot of time must be spent with the other person. Do not judge anyone on first sight or first meeting, for it is very hard to completely open up in front of someone on the first meeting. Understand how he or she expresses himself. Everyone can boast about their qualities but a true and an honest person is one who also talks about his flaws and is continuously trying to rectify them. Because we know that no one is perfect, if he or she talks about their laws, it tells you how open they are.

Judging one on a dinner table is not the way to go. For complete understanding, both the partners must spend time indulging in mutually liked activities. Try an understand each other’s perspectives, each other’s life circumstances for every man or woman walk a different path of life from one another.A true lifelongpartner is one who understands everything about you. Share your passions and see how the reaction. Share your lifelong goals and ambitions and see how supportive the other person is. Also remember, don’t be stuck in a particular way of thinking. Be open and ever ready to change your mind about general things and ways of life.

It is very important that you have understood the other person really well inside out and are ready to accept him or her for you might just end up spending your entire life with them as your soul mate.

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