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Some Must Follow Marriage Tips For Newlyweds

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Marriage is one of the most beautiful relationships and can be bliss if nurtured well. The one thing that connects you with your soul-mate is your understanding and love with your partner. But, if your relationship is not that great and you failed to manage it well, then you land into a foul soup. Everything in that relationship appears complicated and troublesome. It increases fight and tensions among the young couples. As a newlywed you need to pay more attention and time to this relationship. Here, we are sharing some tips for newlyweds to make your married life happier.

Don’t involve your family all the time: It is good to take advice from your elders and take their help and suggestion if it is really required. But, it is not at all suggested to involve your parents or in-laws in every big and small matter. Take your stand and make your own decisions. It is good if you avoid involving your parents and other family members in your personal matters.

Don’t go to bed in bad mood: Arguments, small clashes and difference of opinions are common in very relationship and even in happiest marriage as well. Your partner can’t all the time accept and agree upon your thoughts and idea. Learn to accept the difference of opinions in a lighter note rather than reacting on it immediately or just holding them for some time. All couples must settle down their differences or any kind of conflicts before they go to bed. It is important to stay happy and feel stress free.

Keep it simple and wait for some time: There are many couples who just jump into a new role just after marriage. There are lot things you are expected to cope-up with after marriage like settling down in new family, understanding issues with family and your spouse, job changes and maintaining a balance between your office and home. Therefore, it is advisable to avoid planning a family just after your marriage. It is good to wait for at least six months or more or until you feel that that you are well settled in new family and comfortable to take this new responsibility.

Track your money: One thing over which most of the couples fight frequently after marriage is money. As a married couple, you must be surprised to note that your money just flies away and it is really difficult to track it. But, make a habit of noting down each and every expense, making a monthly budget and sticking to it religiously. Track your money and try to save money for your future. Avoid asking money from parents and in-laws. It can trigger clashes and arguments between you.

Don’t quit your job: After marriage, you will find that your overall monthly expenses increases and to combat that it is important that you have sufficient money flow. If both of you are working, you will find it easier to save money and invest your money to gain combined financial success. It will also help you to keep yourself busy and tuned with your routine.

Follow your dreams: It is important to have dreams and chase them. It is good for individuals and for couples as well. It gives you a platform where you both started thinking similarly. Your dream could be anything like taking a new job, starting a new business, buying your own house or something else. It is important to share your idea with your spouse, take his/her views and suggestions. It will strengthen your bond and build your understanding as couple.

Work as team not individuals: A happy marriage is all about working as a team not as two individuals. Take care of each-others requirements and needs. Try to do household chores together or divide your responsibilities to ease your burden. It will build your bonding and you work as team to meet your daily requirements. It will give you the feeling of a happy couple and will improve your relationship with your spouse.

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Some Interesting Ideas To Celebrate Your First Valentine’s Day Together

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14th February is considered as lover’s day and popularly known as Valentine ’s Day. It is the day when cupid strikes, a day full of love, flowers, chocolates, promises and gifts. The most usual way of showing your love to your beloved is gifting her flowers, chocolates, and teddy bear. But, sometimes it is good to think out-of-box and plan something, which is not very usual. It will add real fun and excitement to the event. It is really important that you think and try some ideas that not at all common or usual. Here, we are sharing some exciting & fun loving ways of celebrating Valentine ’s Day together.

Visit some unusual/new places: Like every second couple, don’t plan your Valentine ’s Day celebration in some lavish restaurant or biggest mall of the city. Spending the whole day there in indoor shopping and eating fast food. To add some fun and excitement in your valentine’s day, you can visit some unusual places on this special day. Visit some places, which you have never visited earlier.

Home restaurant for love bites: Another idea that you can try at home to make your valentine’s day memorable is set a table for two on your terrace, in your balcony or garden and decorate the surroundings with small lights, candles with some awesome music. This would give the evening a very romantic and personal touch.

Organize a small personal party: You can also organize a small personal party at home. You can invite a few of your friends or family members to celebrate the day differently. This is something unusual, which nobody does because we consider it as personal affair.

Give personal touch to your wedding: Instead of buying an expensive gift, you can make something for him/her. You can make some nice handmade card or a dairy notes, decorate his/her cupboard with different handwritten messages or decorate your room.

Go for some unusual events: You can plan your day differently by organizing some different events. You can think about events like spending some hours at some old age home, pet rescue organization, some NGO or such placesm, where you can do something for humanity.

Donate something for humanity: You can also organize some donation camp or donate your old clothes, or unused clothes to some organizations that need such things. If you have old toys, books, stationary or some stuff which you are not busing, you can also plan something like that. You can also organize some food camp where you can offer food to some unprivileged people.

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COPING WITH A BREAK-UP or DIVORCE

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Time is not of the essence when it comes to talking about relationships. It is so strong that no matter what or when, whenever there is a loss of relationship, it hurts us a lot. Not only us but people close to us too. And it is most difficult for some people to cope with this sadness.

When relationship ends they leave us all helpless. They impact us in a way that is very unique. First and foremost thing that you need to prepare yourself about and with is that remember there is always a grieving period and one must embrace the natural emotions that come with it too. Most common feeling one feels once their relationship has ended is the feeling of abandonment. Remember it is not your fault that this happened and you do not need to punish yourself for this. Simply following some guidelines will help you struggle through this very important phase of your life.

The more you discuss with people, the more you will be able to less think about it and quickly get over it. If you don’t want to talk, sometimes writing it out in a diary or just talking to yourself in the mirror helps too.  Just try and forgive yourself he entire phase. The reason it is good to let it all out is so that feelings like loneliness and anger do not aggravate the depression.

During this phase, it is very important that you keep very good care of your own health. This includes eating healthy and good food right on time. Keeping a normal routine can greatly help in losing the depression from your mind. Many people resort to not eating for a long time to get over the depression but it only makes it worse. Your body needs the strength to help you fight these negative feelings. Try and work out your body. Keeping the body busy will help you think about other stuff as compared to the bad memories from your relationship.

Try and keep positive energy continuously flowing in your body. Think about all the great things in your life. Cherish each moment in this life for this life is too short to have sad memories. Try taking up hobbies and do things that you always wanted to do as a kid and couldn’t do because of some reason. Bring back the child in you and let it all out. Have the most amazing time of your life. Watch movies; go on a camping trip with your friends etc. for some people eating an entire tub of ice-cream does the trick. And guess what, now there is no one to comment on what you should eat and what you shouldn’t. Eat all those fats all that butter and cream for this is your moment to live and there cannot be any kind of obstruction in it.

So now you know how one feels after this unfortunate event and how one can cope with this. These kinds of breakups take place everywhere and every day. So it is best recommended for you that once you have handled your own situation, please help out others with similar pain and share this article with them.

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