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Five Magical Statements to Strengthen Your Relationship with Your Spouse

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Every couple is different and the formula of their happiness and success of their marriage is different from other. Similarly, the love language is different for different couples. You can’t rate all couples at one level. When you are in this relationship, you always want to feel blessed and happy. You always want to enjoy the blissful marriage and at the same time you want to feel loved. There is nothing better than the feeling that there is someone who is always there for you. You always feel special and want to make your spouse to feel special because the love and bond you share with him/her. Here, we are sharing five magical statements to strengthen your relationship with spouse.

I love you for what you are: This is very soothing and satisfying statement when you listen this from your spouse. You always feel happy to listen to this that your spouse accepts you and love you for whatever you are. He/she does not want to make any changes in you or in your habits, but they are happy with you and accept you with your positive and negative sides. This makes your relationship stronger and better. You enjoy your relationship with your spouse more than anything else.

I trust you: This is another statement which gives you and your relationship a new strength. Trust is one of the most important factors of one’s life and you can’t imagine a relationship without trust. The core element behind the successful marriage is trust. When you listen to this statement “I trust you” it means a lot to you as couple because you know that in all ups and downs of life your spouse will be with you and trust you.

You are my world: When you listen to these golden words you feel special and loved. When your spouse said this to you that you are my world, it gives a new life to your relationship. All of us want to feel the warmth of love and care in our life. We don’t want to feel ignored and neglected, but when we heard this for your spouse you are everything, then it means a lot to you.

I can’t imagine a day without you: No matter how bad you are feeling because of any silly reason, but when you listen to this, you feel special and blessed with true love from your spouse. When your spouse says these golden words to that he/she can’t imagine a day without him/her, it gives you sense of belongingness and togetherness. Therefore, this special statement gives you a sense of love and pride. It gives you a sense that you hold a special place in his/her life and it will be difficult for him/her without you.

I am happy when I am with you: Happiness is one of the important factors behind the success of any relationship. If you are happy in your relationship, then nothing will bother you and you will not feel sad or regret for anything. The relationship of a husband and wife is very crucial and you can’t imagine the longevity of this relationship in the absence of happiness. If you are not happy in this special bond, then it will appear a burden to you. Therefore, this kind of statements gives you a sense of security and assurance that you are on the right track and your relationship will become stronger and stronger over the period of time.

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Secrets of Happy Marriage Revealed!

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“Happily ever after” can be achieved in real life too, it is not meant as a tag in movies only. It is not a fairy tale or something that can’t be achieved. It is something that can be easily achieved and enjoyed if you make small efforts to make your married life happily ever after. You can enjoy this status by investing a little time and making big and small efforts. If you too think that it is not easy to get this status of “Happily ever after”, we are here reveling some secrets of happy marriage to make your journey simple and blissful.

Don’t compromise happiness: This is one of the golden rules of happy marriage. You should not forget one thing that matter in a relationship is happiness. You can survive in the absence of a few materialistic things, but you can’t survive in the absence of happiness. Don’t compromise your happiness with anything in your married life. So, work on things which make you happy as couple to enjoy the blissful married life.

Be thankful: This is very necessary to be thankful to your spouse. Always be thankful to the things and efforts your spouse is making to make your day-to-day life simple and comforting be it the smallest thing of keeping your wardrobe organized or making food. Be thankful to your spouse and make your partner feel special that you always recognize his/her efforts.

Keep your expectations high: You must have heard a lot about the reverse statement that to enjoy a blissful marriage you should not have too high expectations or you should not expect something extraordinary from your marriage or partner. But, this is not really convincing. Always keep your expectations high from your spouse and relationship as well. This will work as motivator and encourage you to work as a team and increase your understanding as couple. You will work as team to meet your expectations.

Trust your partner: To enjoy a happy marriage trust is one of the most important aspects. Your marriage can’t survive in the absence of trust. Trust factor is very important for marriage. You should work on building trust in your partner. Doubting your partner at times is very common phenomena in marriage, but not trusting your partner is dangerous for the future of your marriage. Always build your relationship strong with a great level of trust.

Don’t hesitate to show your love physically: You should not hesitate to show your love physically to your spouse. Physical chemistry and attachment are binding factors in marriage. You should not hesitate to express and your love to your partner. Embrace him/her with hug, or kiss or something else which you think will connect you with your partner. Moreover, you should build your own physical signs to express your love to your spouse.

Have financial transparency: Financial transparency is another important aspect in building healthy, happy and strong relationship with your spouse. Be transparent in your financial matters. You should be clear and transparent about your financial status, savings and financial liabilities. If you don’t discuss and share the exact financial status with your spouse, then there are chances that you will face issues in future because of wrong financial expectations from your partner.

Enjoy surprises: Surprise is something that gives new life to your married life. To enjoy the spark of love in your married life don’t forget to give sweet surprises to your partner. All of us love surprises and you can’t deny the importance of surprise as it helps in bringing you closer and cherishing some happy memories.

Plan a date: Planning a surprise date can give the much desired boost to your love life in marriage. It will not only make you break the ice of monotony, besides help in strengthening your relationship. Dating is not only meant for youngsters or unmarried couples, but it is equally important for married people as well. You should always plan a date whenever you get time or whenever you want to add zing of love to daily routine life.

Compliment your spouse: Do you think that compliment is always welcomed by females only? But, this is not true, compliment is welcomed by males as well. If you think that your husband is looking great in a particular shirt, then don’t forget to mention this. This is applied on males as well. If your lady love is looking gorgeous, then don’t forget to mention that to her that she is looking great.

Behave like a team: You are like a team, while maintaining your individuality don’t forget that you are a team. You are a team and should always be in sync. In every good and not so good situation you should always behave like a team. You are working towards the same objectives and you are a team.

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Ask Some Important Questions Before Getting Serious in Relationship

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When you are thinking too serious about someone special in your life, you start making a lot of plans about your future. But, it is important to think before things became really hot between you two. You must have shared many thoughts and dream with him/her, but it is equally important to know his/her views and thoughts on the same before you take the next step in life. It is important to know and check that you are on the same page and you are thinking alike. Is he/she also feeling the same what you are feeling for him/her? Therefore, it becomes more important to ask a few important questions to understand what he/she feels about you and your special relationship.

What are his/her future plans?: You should always ask this question to that someone special before you create your own fairy tale with him/her. Ask what he/she thinks about you? What are his/her future plans with you? It is important to know what he/she feels about you and keeping your future in mind as future couple. If he/she thinks that you two should remain as good friends as you are today, then you should hold your emotions back and move on.

Is he/she is ready for commitment: This is another big question in front of those who are in a relationship. You love to be with each-other. You love to spend more time together, but you don’t want to make any commitment or promises in relationship. You are happy with your open relationship where you have fewer expectations and liabilities towards each-other.

What is cheating for you?: This is another important question to ask him/her before you became serious in the relationship. What he/she thinks about cheating and what will be their reaction and something similar he/she will face in the future? For some people online intimacy or chatting with someone is acceptable, but some people will count it as cheating. Therefore, it becomes more important to know how he/she will react if something similar happens in the future.

Do you mind to accept this relationship publicly?  Ask him/her that whether he/she would mind to discuss about your relationship with anyone. There are many people who don’t like to discuss about their relationship with anyone else. There are many people who don’t want to make their relationship public and always want to keep it secret.

Is he/she ready to face any worse situation for you?: Making commitment is one thing and taking a strong stand for your commitment is another thing. Is he/she ready to stand for your relationship if things go south in the future? Is he/she ready to face anything for survival of your relationship? If he/she also feels equally strong about this relationship or he/she is ready to stand by you in all the circumstances, then you need not to worry about this relationship and its future.

Is there is something which you should know?: This is another important thing which you should consider before taking a next step in your relationship. Ask is there something which you should know before getting serious about this relationship. Is there something which you should know before taking this relationship to next level, be it about his/her past, family, any other past relationship or something which might affect your future?

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Do You Bother About Inter-Caste Marriage?

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Marriage in India is considered as one of the biggest event of once life. If there is someone in marriageable age in the family you always want him/her to get marry in the same caste or community. Why we all the time condemn inter-caster marriage so much? Why we want to marry someone from our own community? We all must have heard this from our parents that we don’t want you to go for inter-caste marriage. We are ok with your love marriage, but not with inter-caste love marriage. This is something really strange that in present tech-savvy world too we consider inter-caste marriage as stigma. Do you think that our generation next too thinks about it in the same manner? Do you think that they also mind about marrying someone from a different caste or community? Here, we are sharing some of the reasons why we still prefer inter-caste marriage and a survey finding what our new generation thinks about inter-caste marriage.

The younger generation believes that there is no harm in marrying someone from a different caste. They don’t mind marrying someone from a different caste if they find him/her compatible. But one the reverse side parents want that their kids should marry within their caste, be it arranged or love marriage.

Rashmi Soni, 28 years, Senior Creative Designer, MNC, Gurgaon said that she does not mind marrying someone from a different caste or community if she will find him understanding and compatible. She also mentioned that her first preference is to find a life partner who is understanding and professionally stable, rather than marrying someone from the same caste who is not at all compatible.

In another conversation with Investment Banker, Anurag Singh, 30 years, shared with us that he too doesn’t mind marrying someone from a different caste if that girl is mature and intelligent. He wants to marry someone who is understanding and prove to be a better-match. For him caste has nothing to do in married life except celebrating festivals differently. But, this is a very small thing in front of other issues which you face if you marry a wrong person.

Lakhshita Tonk, 27 years, working as Financial Analyst with a financial firm in Hyderabad, said that she likes someone in her office and planning to get married soon. He is from a different caste and she mentioned that if there is no problem in working someone from a different community. You can be good friends if you are from different caste why you can’t marry someone from a different caste. She mentioned that understanding and compatibility has nothing to do with caste. This is just a norm which we all follow to get the societal acceptance to our relationship.

Dinesh Garg, 26 years, Senior Risk Management Analyst, CA firm Pune, said that he is working in Pune with a CA firm and earning good. He mentioned that he will not bother much about the caste of his life partner if he finds someone compatible and a perfect match. He wants someone who will be understanding and supportive. He wants someone who understands his professional liabilities and mature enough to handle situation at her own. So, caste is not the main criteria for marriage, but a better match with higher understanding is preferred.

We, also discussed the same topic with parents and here we find that they have a different opinion altogether. However, there are many reasons behind their logic and not supporting inter-caste marriage. Let’s take a look what our senior generation thinks about inter-caste marriage.

Rajat Jha, 54 years, PWD officer, is looking for a match for his daughter. He is looking for a groom from his own caste. He is not in favor of marrying his daughter in different caste. He said that marrying our daughter to different caste will create pressure for her. It will be difficult for her to adjust with new rituals and new things in life. We love to do thing the way we see them from out childhood. It is difficult to follow new rituals and get adjusted. Therefore, he doesn’t want to search someone from a different caste.

Kuldeep Nair, 58 years, Banker is also not convinced with the idea of finding a match for his son/daughter in different caste. He said that it might be it will take some time to find a good match or a perfect match within the community, but it is not difficult. He further mentioned that we are Pandit, we follow certain rituals and traditions which are different from other communities. I don’t want that my daughter or daughter-in-law will follow some different rituals. It will create problem and make life more complicated for the member to get adjusted with new styles and traditions. He further added, if you get married in a different caste you feel like that you are from a different planet and have nothing to say, rather just to follow everything blindly.

Santoshi Mathur, 60 years, Teacher is also not really happy with this changing trend. She said that nowadays, kids are going for love marriage and they prefer to marry someone who is equally qualified, smart, intelligent and compatible. So, they don’t mind marrying someone from a different caste. But, as a parent we know that our society does not easily accept an inter-caste arranged marriage. It will further affect our future search for our other kids. Therefore, she also believes that inter-caste marriage is not a good idea as it reduces of getting a good match within the caste for other kids in the family.

Why you should do inter-caste marriage? Why you should not do inter-caste marriage?
Caste is not the problem in any marriage Social acceptance is lower
You will learn new customs and rituals Lower chances of finding a better match for other kids within community
You feel that now you are part of two different societies Adjustment issues in accepting and learning new customs and  rituals
You feel more connected Cultural differences
You start respecting other customs and make you more mature People still consider it as stigma

 

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Appreciate Your Husband to Strengthen Your Relationship

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The relationship of husband and wife is built over trust and love. It is one of the most important and integral part of married life. Apart from love and appreciation, you also require a lot of things to get going and enjoy a happy relationship. Appreciating your husband doesn’t mean that you are buttering him or you have some hidden desires because of that you are praising. But, true appreciation with pure feelings is very important to show your love and to strengthen your relationship with husband. We all love words of appreciation and similar thing exist in our marriage as well. Your husband also expects word of appreciation from you to feel great. Here, we are sharing some tips to appreciate your husband and strengthen your relationship.

Appreciate his efforts: If he is doing something for you out of love or because he is worried for you. It is important to appreciate his efforts. If he is good with something like collecting something, or he is very organized or something which you think that you must acknowledge, so appreciate his efforts.

Appreciate his taste: We all have some special qualities and your husband must be having something special. If his fashion sense is outstanding and he is good with it, then don’t forget to mention it or appreciate it. If he is too foodie and loves to explore and experiment with food, or loves to explore new places, then appreciate him and enjoy his company.

Show your trust: No relationship can survive in the absence of trust and faith. Always show your trust and faith in him. When you discuss anything with him or he asked you to take some important decision because he thinks it is good for your family, then show your trust in his decision. While taking important decisions ask for his opinion and views. Take his help and show him that you believe in him.

Praise him for his decision-making ability: When he makes some important decisions like financial decision, professional decision or something else, respect his decision skills. In such situation where his decisions helped you to sail through bad time, don’t praise his decision-making skills. Show your trust in his right decisions.

Show him respect: Respecting your partner is very important. Respecting your partner doesn’t mean that you never say anything or put your opinion. Showing respect to your partner means you respect and love him for what he is. Make him feel that he is your hero and he is perfect for you. He must feel special and great for being what he is.

Don’t forget to compliment: If he is looking good, then don’t forget to tell him that he is looking handsome or great in your own ways. Complimenting your partner will help in strengthening your love with your partner.

Compliment his patience: For instance, if he is visiting some showroom with you to buy something and he is being patient with it then respects his patience. He will be more than receptive when your next request comes later on. Appreciating him and complimenting his effort will make him feel that he holds some special place in your heart and life.

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