Marriage is a two-way communication and no marriage can survive without good bonding and healthy communication. Most of the time, we hear and read about how wives feel irritated or frustrated with their husband’s habits. But, have you ever realized how a man feels over the different habits his wife? How does he feel when she did something irritating? In our recent conversation with a few married men, we find that women too leave no stone unturned to irritate their counterparts. They do enjoy a lot of things and husbands work as fixers for their habits. Here, we are sharing some glimpse of our conversation with them and their personal experiences.
Bad driving sense: “Females are considered as bad drivers and my wife proves it again and again by hitting my car with something or other frequently”, Ramesh Shukla, Chandigarh, told this to us. He further added, “She has very bad driving sense and whenever she is supposed to park the car in parking, she surely hit the car. This irritates him a lot and most. You feel like not to give her the the key, still you have too.” This is one thing which irritates most of the males because they love their car and a single scratch on their favorite machine can make their heart sink.
Treating like a kid: You love being pampered, but not all the time. When your wife treats you like a kid all the time it irritates you most. Sandeep Singh, Gurgaon, mentioned, “I know I don’t help her in many things at home. But, if she instructs me all the time what I should, what not, or what to wear and what to eat? It annoys me.” You feel being loved and care, but it doesn’t mean that your partner will tell you what you should and how you should it like we instruct our kids. This kind of behavior irritates many men.
Nagging and endless calls: You love when someone loves you and cares for you, but at the same time being over-concerned and bottling up things with a lot of love can be annoying. Anuj Yadav, Lucknow, told, “ My wife loves me so much, but at times this SO MUCH love irritates me like anything. If I don’t pick her call because I am busy in meeting, she will keep on calling till the time I don’t pick the call and tell her that will call you back.” He further added, “Every day she makes more than 20 calls to me to know my whereabouts and what I am doing.” This is really irritating and annoying for many males because they feel that their wives are not giving them enough space and nagging them by making endless calls.
Trail of questions: This is one of the most common habits of females and they ask you end number of questions in whole day. It makes many men angry because they got irritated with endless questions and counter questions. Yugant Rajput, Mumbai, said, “My wife asks me endless questions. First, she will ask a question and when you reply to that you will bombard me with other counter questions. This is our daily routine. In case, I miss answering something, then I have to face another ten questions on that.” This is really irritating and annoying for almost all men. If you too have same habit, work on this because it might be your man also got irritated with your trial-sessions.
Nothing is enough for them: Most of the men do feel that whatever they do for their lady love is not enough for them. Generally, wives criticize their husbands about so many small and big things. They hardly appreciate them for anything, whatever they do, they face criticism. Arun Nair, Hyderabad, said, “At times, I feel so frustrated because she is never happy with whatever I do. If I buy something for her, rather than appreciating it, she will focus more on the price, quality, brand and 100 other things about it, to let me know that how I wasted my money.” Most of the wives forget to appreciate the efforts of their husbands and divert their focus on other things and annoyed them.
Not paying attention to advice: This is another common trait of females which annoy husband’s many times. Men liked to be consulted if you are going to do something important, but if you are ignoring them or their advice, then for sure you are raising their eyebrows. This will irritate him like anything. This will give him a sense that you don’t value him and his words. Ronak Mishra, Delhi, said, “Whatever I will advise or suggest to my wife she will do opposite to it. This irritates me like anything.” It is good to be independent and self-dependent, but listening to your husband’s advice will not harm you anyway.