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Annoyed with Your Husband? Never Say These Things To Your Husband

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Marriage is not always sunshine, you do experience the edges in the journey of your married life. When you are annoyed and unhappy with your spouse you say a lot of things to your partner that you regret later. No matter how unhappy you are with him or how bad you are feeling because of his behavior, but you should never say a few things to your spouse. Marriage is a very special relationship and you should never take this relationship or your partner for granted. To enjoy a blissful and happy marriage, you should always give respect to your partner. Here, we are sharing list of things which you should never say to your partner.

I can’t live with you: This is something very common among couples. Most of the couples say this to their spouse during their fights. Generally, you make statements like, “it is really difficult to live with you” or “I can’t live with you anymore” or “I want to go back to my parents’ home”. All these statements give him a feeling that you don’t believe in this relationship and it’s a kind of burden on you. This will give him a kind of negative feeling about self. Avoid such kind of statements when you are annoyed with your husband.

I don’t believe you: Trust is a very important factor in relationship. If you suspect your partner or you think that he is untruthful, saying this can affect your relationship like anything. If you have trouble with your husband’s habits, you find something suspicious, then it is better to discuss this, rather than making a fuss over it and shouting on your partner. Focus more on asking questions to clear your confusion, rather than making such bold statement. Such statement might backfire and chop your relationship.

You are overreacting: This is one statement which might annoy your partner. When you are not happy with the reaction of your partner, you tend to make statements like you are overreacting, but instead of saying things like “you are overreacting”, or “you are too sensitive”, or “you are too emotional” or “don’t be so defensive”, it is better you try to resolve the issue. Instead of telling him how to react, find ways to ease his tension and worries. Even if you are not able to resolve the issue, listen to his thoughts calmly without judging him.

I am not your maid: When you are angry with your life partner or during your fights, you make statements like, “I am not your maid”, “I have never done this in my life, but I am doing this here day and night” or “At times, I feel like I am not more than a maid in this house”, all such statements will give him a kind of feeling that he is not able to keep you happy. Such kind of statements will give him a sense that you are doing this because of some compulsion, but not because you feel yourself a part of the family. So, making such statements might irritate him and take your fight to some other level.

Are you that stupid?: Making statements like, “are you that stupid?”, “that’s an awful idea”, “how could you be so dumb?”, all such statements are very hurtful for your partner. He might be doing something in ignorance or unintentionally, but making such statements might hurt his sentiments. Supporting your partner is very important for a healthy relationship. Unsupportive statements can harm your relationship with your partner.

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6 Most Irritating Habits of Women Increasing Frustration of Their Husbands

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Marriage is a two-way communication and no marriage can survive without good bonding and healthy communication. Most of the time, we hear and read about how wives feel irritated or frustrated with their husband’s habits. But, have you ever realized how a man feels over the different habits his wife? How does he feel when she did something irritating? In our recent conversation with a few married men, we find that women too leave no stone unturned to irritate their counterparts. They do enjoy a lot of things and husbands work as fixers for their habits. Here, we are sharing some glimpse of our conversation with them and their personal experiences.

Bad driving sense: “Females are considered as bad drivers and my wife proves it again and again by hitting my car with something or other frequently”, Ramesh Shukla, Chandigarh, told this to us. He further added, “She has very bad driving sense and whenever she is supposed to park the car in parking, she surely hit the car. This irritates him a lot and most. You feel like not to give her the the key, still you have too.” This is one thing which irritates most of the males because they love their car and a single scratch on their favorite machine can make their heart sink.

Treating like a kid: You love being pampered, but not all the time. When your wife treats you like a kid all the time it irritates you most.  Sandeep Singh, Gurgaon, mentioned, “I know I don’t help her in many things at home. But, if she instructs me all the time what I should, what not, or what to wear and what to eat? It annoys me.” You feel being loved and care, but it doesn’t mean that your partner will tell you what you should and how you should it like we instruct our kids. This kind of behavior irritates many men.

Nagging and endless calls: You love when someone loves you and cares for you, but at the same time being over-concerned and bottling up things with a lot of love can be annoying. Anuj Yadav, Lucknow, told, “ My wife loves me so much, but at times this SO MUCH love irritates me like anything. If I don’t pick her call because I am busy in meeting, she will keep on calling till the time I don’t pick the call and tell her that will call you back.” He further added, “Every day she makes more than 20 calls to me to know my whereabouts and what I am doing.” This is really irritating and annoying for many males because they feel that their wives are not giving them enough space and nagging them by making endless calls.

Trail of questions: This is one of the most common habits of females and they ask you end number of questions in whole day. It makes many men angry because they got irritated with endless questions and counter questions. Yugant Rajput, Mumbai, said, “My wife asks me endless questions. First, she will ask a question and when you reply to that you will bombard me with other counter questions. This is our daily routine. In case, I miss answering something, then I have to face another ten questions on that.” This is really irritating and annoying for almost all men. If you too have same habit, work on this because it might be your man also got irritated with your trial-sessions.

Nothing is enough for them: Most of the men do feel that whatever they do for their lady love is not enough for them. Generally, wives criticize their husbands about so many small and big things. They hardly appreciate them for anything, whatever they do, they face criticism. Arun Nair, Hyderabad, said, “At times, I feel so frustrated because she is never happy with whatever I do. If I buy something for  her, rather than appreciating it, she will focus more on the price, quality, brand and 100 other things about it, to let me know that how I wasted my money.” Most of the wives forget to appreciate the efforts of their husbands and divert their focus on other things and annoyed them.

Not paying attention to advice: This is another common trait of females which annoy husband’s many times. Men liked to be consulted if you are going to do something important, but if you are ignoring them or their advice, then for sure you are raising their eyebrows. This will irritate him like anything. This will give him a sense that you don’t value him and his words. Ronak Mishra, Delhi, said, “Whatever I will advise or suggest to my wife she will do opposite to it. This irritates me like anything.” It is good to be independent and self-dependent, but listening to your husband’s advice will not harm you anyway.

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6 Most Annoying Habits of Your Husband That Drives You Crazy

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You must have heard this statement many a times that men are from Mars and women are from Venus. Men and women are two different creatures with different thought process and habits. When you compare the habits of a husband and of a wife you will find a lot of differences in their habits and attitudes. Most of the men are lazy, want to lay back and enjoy a luxurious life where they are not supposed to do anything if they are at home. In general, most of the men expect their wives to be superwomen who will take care of each and everything at home. These habits at times become the reasons of daily clashes and arguments between the husband and wife. For all lazy buns and gorgeous beauties, we are here sharing some common habits of husbands that drive wives crazy.

Leaving wet towel on bed: This is very common habit.  Most of the wives must be noticing this every day and highlighted this many time not to put wet towel on bed. Generally, husbands don’t bother to keep their wet towels on the drying wires or roads. But, they just throw the towel either on bed or wherever they find place to keep it. They knew that their wife will surely keep it at proper place. But, this habit irked most of the wives and they really hate this habit. If you are among those husbands, then work on rectifying your habit.

Messy rooms: Most of the husbands are not bothered about the cleanliness of their room. They are least bothered to notice the unorganized table, messy bedsheet or untidy blankets. They are just happy to rest on their bed and watching their favorite match. This habit irritates all women. Most of the time either they keep things at place or trying to clean the floor and other thing. Messy room is a total no-no thing for a female and irritates them a lot.

Untidy toilets: Whenever you use the bathroom, you are least bothered to clean it up. Men generally leave bathroom dirty with muddy footprints, wet floor and unorganized shelves. They never bother that someone else will also use the same bathroom after them. Do you think that the bathroom gets clean itself? NO, your wife put lot of efforts in keeping this place hygienic and cleans it for everyone in the family. Next time, you use your bathroom, just ensure you are leaving it clean.

Unorganized wardrobe: While picking your favorite shirt from your wardrobe you mess all other clothes kept in the wardrobe. Most of the men generally unfold or shift their clothes from their original place to another to pick their favorite shirt or trouser and don’t bother to organize the things before closing the wardrobe. This is another habit which irritates most of the females. Generally, women try to fix everything and keep everything in place. Still, if you mess everything all the time whenever you pick anything from wardrobe, then try and work on your habit and keep your wardrobe clean because it belongs to you only.

Not picking up calls: It might be you are so busy with your meeting, office stuff or appointments and you were not in a situation to pick the call when she calls you up, but not making a call back is really sad. It might be she got stuck somewhere or she wants to tell something important, in that case you will disappoint her with your habit. There is nothing worse and irritating that waiting for someone’s call. So, if you tell her that you will call her back, then ensure that you make her a call as soon as you get free from your important meeting and assignments.

Checking out other girls: Being a male you can’t resist the temptation of checking out other girls even if you are hanging out with your wife in a shopping mall or on your dinner date. If you too have wandering eyes and you think that your woman is not aware of your habit, in that case you are wrong. She is well aware of your habit and she knows what are you upto. No woman likes her husband checking out other women in front of her and even in her absence too. It is not a sophisticate behavior and no women expect this from her husband.

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