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Ten ways to keep the spark going

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In a country like ours, matrimony  is holy. It should be because you enter into a bond between souls with a promise to strive for a better life. Though the relationship is vitally important, it is not challenge-proof. Couples have their ups and downs while they try to settle down into this new relationship. Newness fades into small disagreements, but this should never mean that the spark is gone. The transition from passionate love to compassionate love requires efforts, and these efforts should come from both. Try the following ways to give the spark a shot once the honeymoon period is over.

1) Bring Back The Date Nights
Now that you have caved into the routine make sure to make your partner feel special, no matter how busy your schedule is. Being complacent is easy but lethal. Take your partner away to his/her favorite restaurant once in a while to rediscover the special fun of dating.

2) Never Forget To Communicate
There is nothing better in any relationship than to admit feelings and share worries. Feel free to talk to your partner if something does not feel right. Listen to their part of the story. Share your dreams and fears, grow together, talk about that bump you faced in the office. Talk about everything.

3) Cultivate a common interest
Watch a sport, read a book, spend time gardening, try knitting. In short, try any of the common interests you share together and watch the bond grow. Marriage is so much more than budgeting and raising a family. It is growing together.

4) Head to the movie theatre
In Indian setups, it is sometimes difficult to get your partner all to yourself. Put out a little effort and get your partner out for a lovely movie, don’t mind if the movie does not turn out to be lovely, be grateful that you spent time together. Then bash the movie together.

5) Help with chores
Nothing is sexier than being caring in any relationship. Take responsibility and make efforts in the kitchen or around the house. This will make your partner feel equal, and you will eventually help the bond grow stronger.

6) Respect Each Other
Respect is food for every marriage. Even if one of the partners is wrong and another loses cool, make sure that you can still look eye to eye after the storm is settled. If you do not respect your partner, others may follow the lead. Respect to be respected.

7) Take On An Adventure
Being married has its perks. You will never have to find another partner for your adventures. Try a new restaurant, go swimming, go to another city. Try something new.

8) Surprise!!!
Try planning something nice for your partner. Pick up some roses on the way home. Write sweet-nothings for him/her. You will put a broad smile on your partner’s face.

9) No Harm In Apologies.
In a long-term relationship, conflicts are obvious. The biggest let-down in such situations is ego and never accepting the fault. Say sorry when you are supposed to. This will not make one weak and another strong but will strengthen the relationship and keep it glowing with a spark.

10) Look Good For Each Other
Last but not least, do not give up on yourself after you get married. Do not stop trying new styles, picking out latest fashion, experimenting with your hair, if you used to. Never stop loving yourself. The love within reflects outside. Entice your spouse in every way you can!

Marriage is beautiful. All that needs to be done is making little efforts. Wake up and try, because trying makes us human. Make this bond as beautiful as it is supposed to be.

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Are Matrimonial Sites are useful than Traditional Ads?

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Traditionally, Indian matrimony always has been arranged because we Indians believe that it is not only the Indian bride and the Indian groom, who are united for life but their families are too. Families and friends scouted for prospective Indian brides and Indian grooms within their social circle and acquaintances. Criteria such as caste, community, education, financial stability, values, culture, compatibility, etc. are kept in mind during this scouting process to ensure the most eligible compatibility between the bride and the groom and their respective families. The scouting process ensured that each family gets as much first-hand information as possible about the other family before committing. Matrimonial advertisements in newspapers and matrimony bureaus were also followed to seek prospective matches, per criteria.

With the wider spread of the internet, there seems to be a surge in matrimonial sites. The use of these sites is particularly popular with the urban youth. As internet and education spread through small towns, the use of matrimonial sites increases in such places as well. The increasing popularity of matrimonial sites can be attributed to the below factors:

Technology Friendly – In current times where people are becoming more tech-savvy, Matrimonial sites offer plenty of prospective matches to choose from at a touch of a button. The sites offer smart filters to narrow search according to everyone’s criteria – religion, age, caste, language, education, etc.

Maintain the Tradition – Most of the profiles come with photos, traditional specifications. So, not only the prospective Indian bride and the Indian groom know what they are looking at, even the families and friends are happy, knowing that the search is being conducted via traditional criteria;

Wider Catchment – Matrimonial sites not only cater to the urban youth but a wide range of population in semi-urban, rural and overseas areas as well;

More Extensive Options – These sites provide the options for all kinds of varied requirements;

Initial Conversation – Matrimonial sites also offer an online chat room, where the prospective groom and bride can initiate a conversation and find out more about each other, arrange for a meet.

Success Stories – Many of these sites post the stories of those Indian brides and Indian grooms that they have successfully paired and wedded. It provides confidence to those, who are seeking prospective matches, as to the efficacy of the matrimonial sites.

When one compares the above advantages to the traditional method of newspaper advertisements, matrimonial sites are more useful.

Newspaper ads have the following disadvantages:

1) These do not provide as broad options as sites do;
2) Are painstaking and time-consuming when it comes to narrowing a prospective match, arranging the initial chat between the potential matches and their families;
3) Do not come with the options of ‘alerts’ as matrimonial sites do (when a prospective match comes up);
4) One is required to visit the newspaper office to update the ad personally;
5) These do not offer a glimpse of the photos of the prospective brides/grooms.

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Be each other’s better half: Share not only Love but Life!

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Relationships thrive on constant nurturing and caring. A person is surrounded by a web of relationships that form the core of his/her social existence. Maintaining any sort of relationship requires communication, empathy, conflict resolution and the list goes on. The most important skill that makes relationship strong, intimate and healthy is sharing.

Relationships require sharing our lives with another person. This may include a lot of dimensions like emotional sharing, intellectual sharing, common values, sharing of beliefs or ideas. The dimension is decided by the level of intimacy a relationship holds. It may be different for people in a marriage. In a marriage, it is fundamental to share your feelings and thoughts. Here is what else you can share in a relationship:

Share Secrets

Sharing secrets is the virtue of best relationships. Two people in a relationship need to be open and honest regarding almost everything. This ensures a sense of security and safety. These secrets can be about your dreams and desires, your highs and lows, expectations and disappointments. Sometimes being vulnerable ensures that the relationship stays intimate and thereby strengthens the bond. One needs to ensure that the secrets shared are honored and never compromised.

Share Hobbies and interests

Relationships require time to bud and blossom. Today, time holds value. Some people are busy with work and careers and relationship takes a backseat. This can be totally avoided. Take out some time dining out or exercising together if you are in a more intimate relationship. Always try to be open to new ideas and try to look out for common interests if any. Pursue them together. This will ensure you get to spend quality time together doing what you both like.

Share your Support

People tend to be emotionally and physically exhausted. The daily chores or too much stress can bring out total negativity from a person. One can simply extend his/her support and make the other feel a little less exhausted. Sharing is lessening the burden.

Share Chores

If you are in a relationship, where you can help your partner with daily chores, it can create a sense of equality. Helping with routine work like cleaning and cooking can ensure a balance and it definitely takes off some load. As they say “two is better than one”- this mantra can go a long way.

How does sharing help?

Sharing can ensure emotional and mental stability in most of the cases. It does good to people who entrust each other with things. Sharing will help you and your partner grow as a team as it develops the sense of togetherness. A person will feel more responsible for the acts done in a relationship.

Sharing chores ensure that both the partners feel equal and it definitely takes some load off. The skill of sharing will make your relationship grow as a team and this will eventually increase the level of intimacy. It eventually builds trust and helps the relationships to flourish.

In matrimony, know that you are not two individuals living your separate lives. You and your spouse are one bounded by the love and care you share with each other.

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Find Your Soulmate Using Intelligent Matchmaking Service By Lovevivah.com

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Majority of today’s generation is tech-savvy. With Smartphones in our hands, the world is a click away. We evolved with technology surrounding us. Our generation wants best and convenient results. This is no surprise that online matrimony is a hit with our optimum result seeking generation. Marriage still holds the highest seat.

This union is grandeur and spectacular. Our preferences for seeking this union has changed. Today we are surrounded by online matrimony services with the majority of people still prefering arranged setups. In our country, cultural and religious beliefs have a soft lean towards arranged marriages. Marriage is the most important event of one’s life, has many criteria as well. Some of them being religion, caste, lifestyle preferences, beliefs, etc.

The Shift towards Online Matrimonial Websites

This sacred and serene union is sought by most of the young generation on these online platforms. The reason being the freedom of choice. Then again, these platforms provide opportunities to indulge in conversation so that the choice is practical than what traditional methods had to offer. Long ago when classified ads used to give us few options, the practicality was limited. Online matrimony platforms make the search for a soulmate easy and hassle-free.

LoveVivah is one of the leading and trusted online matrimony portals. It is a platform that is a perfect blend of traditions and technology. Our database is vast and reliable at the same time. We at LoveVivah understand that marriage is a one-time life-changing affair. We understand that marriage is an intimate affair and our relationship managers ensure that it stays one. Our criteria are vast and accurate. We believe that you deserve the best. LoveVivah is secure, and we match to fit. There is no bigger event than marriage in our culture, and it evokes the bond of eternal love.

LoveVivah is a matrimonial site where we enable intelligent matchmaking system. Your soulmate is a click away. We offer a convenient platform wherein all you need to do is tell us what you prefer, and we work on your criteria. Our membership plans are tailored to your needs.

LoveVivah – Redefining Online Indian Matrimony!

You can view the prospects you are interested in and get in touch with our personalized chat or a call depending on your comfort. Our intelligent matchmaking system makes it easier for you to choose your preferred partner. We take into consideration the choices regarding your lifestyle, stature, preferences and come up with the matches that are tailored as per your requirement.

We respect your privacy. The contact or any other information provided by you will be shared to interested prospects only after a proper consent by you. We do not disclose information without your permission. Our database is thoroughly checked, and we provide trust score to profiles which indicates their level of geneuineness and authenticity. The percentage of trust score depicts how much information is provided by the member. We are the first to introduce Aadhaar linked profiles wherein there is no scope for a dummy or fake profile.

So let us together find you a life partner with a memory you will cherish forever. Let us find love.

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While silent treatment can kill your marriage, The ‘silent mode’ can save it.

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Technology has transformed our lives. It has changed the way we look at things and made us more dependent on what it offers. We are saturated with technology and it is more than easy to get lost in the digital world. Most of us have our jobs, hobbies and communication hinged to these technological devices.

It has made communication the easiest. With constant improvements and utilities, smartphones are functioning as our brain. They have become an integral part of our life. This dependence is reflected in the way we behave within the boundaries of our relationships.

The Obsession with Technology – How It Affects Relationships

We are all so attached to our phones that we fail to realise that this may be actually sabotaging the relationships we have. Yes, we can stay in touch with the people we love as they are just a text away. The interactions become easy. But it is a whole another story when they are right next to you. Most of us are still glued to our phones without giving proper attention to people around us.

One of the most negatively affected relationships in the smartphone frenzy is a marriage. Our cell-phone habits make us forget that matrimony needs continuous nurturing, heart to heart real-time conversations. While we are on our smartphones all the time, it feels like a burden to spend some dedicated time with the spouse.

Couples tend to sleep side by side, scrolling through their face book and Instagram pages. This behaviour is considered normal and that is an irony. It is fine to spend some time with things you find good or interesting, but do not forget to prioritise. In the middle of an interesting conversation with your spouse, the phone rings and whoosh! There goes all the attention.

It is high time to ask yourself, “Are you married to your smartphone”

We cannot run away from the technology. But we can make sure it does not hamper our matrimonial union. Give your partner the time and attention they deserve, because phones can wait. Take some dedicated time off and spend it with your partner. Keep the flow of communication smooth with your partner so that they do not feel neglected. Here are some things that we need to care about right now:

1- Phone-free meals:
While all of us agree to that fact that phones are necessary, prioritising your partner over your phone is the wisest thing of all. Ensure that you can both sit down for a meal without your phone distracting you.

2- Take some time out:
When you cannot put your phone on silent, you can at least ensure to take out some dedicated time for your partner and communicate without any distractions.

3- Be open:
Simple communication can prevent disputes. If you are having a hefty load of work, be straight-forward about it. Convey the reason to your partner.

4- Keep the bedroom cell phone free:
Bedrooms are intimate. Keep the area cell phone free if you can. Use it with your partner to relax and talk about things that actually matter.

Taking periodic vacations from your phone may help you and your partner establish a more intimate bond. Because at the end of the day “Marriage is worth the effort”.

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