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Don’t Want To Face Rejection In Arranged Marriage Meeting Avoid These Questions

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The idea of arranged marriage is really confusing and complicated. When you decided to go for arranged marriage, the whole process is time consuming and daunting. In all arranged marriage set-up, the first meeting with your future partner is very crucial and important. Both the girl and the boy should behave sensibly and maturely while meeting the first time. It is not about that the girls behave more sensitively, even the boys too behave in the same manner. In such odd situation, you need to be little cautious and ask right kind of questions. It is not just the responsibility of the boy to ask the intelligent and sensible questions, rather the girls should also keep this in mind. She should not ask sensitive questions to him. Here are some questions you should not ask to a guy when you are meeting him for the first time.

Do you plan to live separately after marriage: This is the one question which you should not ask to any guy when you are meeting him for the first time. It gives a negative impression and could be a big turn off. It might also give him indication that you don’t want to stay with his parents after marriage or will never adjust with them. So to avoid the tag of home breaker, avoid this question and if you really want to ask, mold your question in something more rational and logical way.

How much you earn?: This is another very sensitive question, however, money is important, but asking this question might offend him. Rather, you can ask some indirect questions like, “What are your future plans?” It will further help you in understanding his role and future stability in a better way. His salary is something that your parents could also enquire about. Even you might also get to know this later if you will get hooked with him.

Any past relationship or girlfriend: Just like you, your prospective partner may also have a past. But, many will like to be questioned much about it, forget sharing the details. Don’t go overboard by asking too personal and intimate questions from him about his past-life.

Are you virgin?: Hey, this is a million dollar questions and might be very important to you. But, asking this question to him in the first meeting might turn disastrous. This is not the right moment to ask such questions. Always, remember that he is not your college friend/office colleague to whom you can ask any question. He is just a stranger to you and this is really sensitive question to ask when you are meeting someone for the very first time. Similar to the girls, boys too find this question direct attack on their character. So, before asking such question, think twice and it could also lead to rejection.

Can we meet one or two more times without telling our parents: No matter, how broad-minded guys claim to be, they will never appreciate this question from a girl. Especially in an arranged marriage scenario, you tend to judge the person based on their initial behavior. There are chances that he might consider you as too fast and easy-going girl. In arranged marriage scenario, always stick to conservative ideas.

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Know What A Modern Woman Looks For In Her Life Partner!

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Marriage Life Partner

Gone are the days when parents and other family members were not bothered to know the opinion of the girls regarding their marriage. Nowadays, parents are getting friendlier with their female child and ask about her opinion and preferences about marriage. Now women have a very strong position in society and they hold special place. They make their own decisions and put forward their thoughts and opinions. Therefore, we can say when it comes to any relationship, they will not settle down with anything and everything, but only with the best. Here, we are discussing some qualities which a modern woman looks for in her life partner.

He should know how to cook basic things, but it does not mean that we are talking about the making maggi or making bread toast. Nowadays, the woman expects that if she is tired and not feeling like cooking, then he must be able to cook something on that day.

He should not show-off his paying ability. If both are working and earning well, then it is always expected he will not show off his paying ability and pay all the bills.

She wants someone who is not mama’s boy. Every girl wants to maintain a good relationship with mother-in-law. But, they don’t want their husband to worship his mother and obey her blindly.

He should not ask her to give up her carrier after marriage. He should allow her to pursue her career and chase her dreams. To continuing work post-marriage should be her decision only.

He should be equally willing to relocate to another city if the situation comes. As the males expect their wife to relocate with them to another city or state if really needed. Nowadays, females also expect the same from their husbands.

Woman wants someone who is always ready to help her in household chores and not the one who always run away even from listing to such things. As you both are sharing the home and everything, therefore, the household work responsibilities should be equally divided.

Give her space and let her enjoy her time. Girls don’t want someone in their life who is all the time behaving like a watch dog and don’t give her space and freedom. They want their own time to enjoy with the way they want.

He should be supportive to her. It is not about supporting her emotionally, but in all aspects. He should be ready to behave like a shield when situation comes and makes her feel comfortable if she is feeling low or unwell.

He should not be in a hurry to start a family just after getting married. Most of the girls like kids and they like to have their own kids too. But, it doesn’t mean that they want to have a kid right after their marriage. She should always make the decision whether she wants to have a kid or not.

Girls like a man who gives her surprises. It is always a girl who plans dinner parties, dates and family dinner/lunches, but most of the male don’t take any initiatives. But, they love if their partner plan something nice for them and give her a sweet surprise.

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7 Qualities You Should Look In Your Future Husband

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Do you think that physical attraction is enough to get married someone? It is really complicated to choose someone as your partner. It is important to choose the right person to lead a happy marriage life. Love and understanding is the basic necessity of any marriage, but in arranged marriage you can develop both after marriage only. Therefore, it becomes more necessary to find the right partner and marry. Besides, these things you should focus on other important qualities. Let’s take a look some important qualities you should focus in your life partner.

  1. He should be honest: The first thing you should look in your future husband is honesty. He should be honest with you and with himself as well. He should be very much aware of his strengths and weaknesses and his limitations. Honesty with each other and with self is really important to keep the relationship going.
  2. Commitment: He should be committed towards his family, his relationship with you and towards your future. It is necessary to have commitments and remain loyal towards the commitments. Find out whether he is fulfilling his promises with other. Does he really committed to live up to his promises? To have a good and healthy relationship, it is important to find a committed person.
  3. Respect for others: Keep a watch how he treats others and how he behaves with others. This is a big indicator of this attitude and how he is going to behave with you in future. Everyone wants a spouse that will value and respect your feeling and emotions. If he is giving due respect to others, that means he will also behave well with you.  No one wants a spouse who will not respect her.
  4. Emotionally stable: You must be looking for someone who is loyal, committed and emotionally stable. A guy who is emotionally committed with you will never leave you in any worst situation in life. Emotional boding in marriage is equally important as good chemistry between you and your life partner. He should not be in a freaky state of mind where he is constantly in up or down of mood. So a stable mood is really important for stable relationship.
  5. Good sense of humor: A light and healthy laughter is important to maintain a healthy and happy relationship. Find someone that can make you laugh even in your worst mood. A good laugh is important to forget all worries and light your day and mood. Most of us want a life partner who can make you laugh. Life has its ups and downs and a partner with good sense of humor can be a good strength to face all the problems with ease.
  6. Good with kids: Also, try to find during the conversation does he like kids? Is he good with kids? It is important to know because it will also help in making you decide how he will be with your future kids. If you plan to have kids after a year or two, then it will surely impact his behavior with your future kids. Try to find out how he behaves with other kids before marriage.
  7. A good listener: Watch his listening style. Is he listen to you carefully and pays attention to whatever you say? He should be a good listener and must be ready to listen to you. An active listener always considers and gives importance to the other person’s feelings. It will also give you a sense of his patience level.

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Don’t Get Married Unless You Ask These Questions To Your Partner

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Are you ready to meet him/her for the first time? Marriage is a beautiful thing and to make it successful, it is important that you keep your right foot forward to begin your journey. Making the right move in marriage is really important. But, it is equally important to know whether he/she is right for you or not. It is important to know his/her views and to know him/her closely. Before making your decision, it is important that you know more about him/her and take a learned decision. It is an important decision of your life and you should not take such an important decision in a hurry. To being your journey with your partner it is important that you should ask below questions to your partner.

  1. What makes you feel that you should meet? This is really important to know what attracted him/her most which encouraged him/her to meet you for arranged marriage.
  2. Has he/she decided to you in a hurry or under pressure? Is he/she taking this decision after evaluating various points and considering you as perfect partner?
  3. Why does he/she want to spend rest of his/her with you? He/she should be able to tell what drives him/her to take this decision. It is really important to know why you are important.
  4. What kind of expectation you have from him/her after marriage? These expectations should include financial, emotional, physical and more. What are his/her expectations from his/her life partner?
  5. Ask questions like does he/she has any healthy issue or history that you should know before marriage? It will be helpful to know such details as you are going to spend of your life with him/her. So, you will be prepared to face any unwanted situation with ease.
  6. Does he/she will be equally affectionate and emotionally involved in this relationship? What are your expectations on the emotional level?
  7. Does he/she mind if your friends/cousin/relatives will visit you frequently or you will visit them?
  8. What are your expectations from each-other’s family? How you want to manage your family issues after marriage?
  9. Do you want to stay with his parents after marriage or you want to stay in a separate house after marriage?
  10. Would you like to take care of your parents after marriage because you are the only child/their old age/any health issue which requires personal care and attention? Would you like them to stay with you?
  11. Will you support your family financially after marriage as well? Will you send a certain percentage of your earning to your parents to support them financially?
  12. How important is individuality, equality and independence for you after marriage?
  13. Who is going to take care of financial matters after marriage? Who is going to make financial decisions after marriage? How much money would you like to save for your future after marriage?
  14. Do you have any financial liability towards your family/any debt to be paid after marriage as well?
  15. When you want to start your family after marriage? Would you like to start just after your marriage or you would like wait for one or more years or want to settle down with your first then want start thinking about it?
  16. If after marriage you are required to shift in a different city/state/country because of your job would you like to shift with him/her?

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6 Professional Questions You Should Ask to Potential Partner

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Communication is very important for every relationship. When you are meeting your potential partner for the first time, it is important that you should ask right questions to him. It will not only give you an idea about how his professional goals and visions rather it will also give you an idea about your future stability with him. Most of the time when we are meeting someone for the very first time, we ask every generic questions to start the conversation and forget to ask all relevant and important questions, which could play a vital role in taking the final decision. Knowing someone professionally is equally important as knowing someone personally for wedding. In our present life, when most of us are working in MNCs and fast paced growing companies, where job is really demanding and you need to give your 200% to sustain in that job, in such a competitive scenario, it becomes important for all of us to know more about the professional goals of our potential partner. Here are some important questions, which one should never miss asking to their potential partner.

What is your dream job?: This is really important questions to know about what is his dream job?  This will also give you a fair idea about his satisfaction level in his present job. If his dream job is the same what he is doing right now, it will indicate the satisfaction level in the professional front and even the stability in the job as if you are happy with your job, then you tends to change your job less frequently.

What do you do in your present company?: However, this question sounds a bit straight and complex, but it would prove helpful to understand what is his role in the company? What kind of work he is doing in the company? What are his professional responsibilities in the office? It will also give you a clear idea about the nature of work and his office life routine as well.

Do you agree that professional stability is important?: Is he professionally stable? Is he changing his job frequently or is he stable in his job? This is really important to know that how stable he is in his job. If he is quite professional and very much stable in his job, in that case you  need not to worry a lot about your future with him as most of the things in his life must be organized in professional and financial front.

Do you plan to start something of your own as entrepreneur?: In present world where everyone wants to try something new and of their own in professional world, then it is a good thing to ask to your potential partner is he really keen to start something of his own as entrepreneur in near future or after a few years. This will give you a clear idea about his future goals in near future.

Do you have any plans to move/settle abroad to pursue your dream job?: If you want to marry a boy who is working in same city and you don’t want to settle anywhere else after marriage then this is really an important question you should ask to your potential partner before making the final decision.  If he is in a kind of job where he might be asked to move out of city or country, then you should ask this to your potential partner.

What is your retirement plan?: This is another thing that you should also ask to your potential partner. You should know about his retirement plans. When did he want to retire from his job? Is he keen to get retire at the age of 50 years or at the age of 60 years or after the age of 60 years? This will help you to understand about his financial saving plans as well. If he wants to retire early from his job, then he must be planning something for his retirement and he must have some plans to enjoy the life after retirement and bear all the financial responsibilities.  So, it is important thing to know from your potential partner before you take that final decision.

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