Marriage, the event of joy and happiness for many but for two, it is an event of nervousness and sadness too. The bride and the groom are going through so much this day. They need all the tips they can gather and that is what this blog is about with focus on grooms. Grooms have a lot to do and a lot to digest and perform so that they can be appreciated with the honor that has been provided to them. All these points can perfectly aid any groom in any situation any day.
Firstly, remember to always have your own perspective. All this wedding is for you so take part and enjoy. Give your opinion on how things should be done on the day of the wedding. Planning out an entire wedding can be very hectic so don’t let your fiancé decide everything for you. Support her. These days things are changing and the most significant has been in gift giving practices. People nowadays instead of giving random gifts to bride’s and groom’s families, give them what the couple would need in the near future life by having bought things off of the registry prepared by the bride and the groom.
Remember to be and act like a man. Do not taunt your wife with the choices she is making. Understand her and explain her, your opinion in a manly and a respectable fashion. Do not let your wife do most of the work for it can be a burden sometimes. Let her also have a break, cook something for her and most importantly, love her.
Indian Wedding is such a big event that mistakes are bound to happen and one thing you can do about it is to make sure they do not go out of control, they are well managed and taken care of. Communication is a great skill that will prove to be a handy one. Also give some focus to your own dress. Either a “Sherwani” or a “Kurta” with a “Pagdi”, everyone notices the groom’s dress and wants to scrutinize it. So you better remember to make it worth a wedding dress and wear it with flair.
And on the final day of your wedding, bring out the emotions that have rested in your body. Bring out the sentiments. Remember to take flowers for your bride and have it delivered to her while she I getting ready. That is a moment of personal touch for it is at the end of our lives that we remember these personal touches given to us by our very own loved ones in this lovely world.
