Are you going to meet someone for the first time for arranged marriage meeting? Have you decided what you are going to wear on your meeting? Have you thought about the questions you are going to ask him/her in your first meeting? If you are ready with all your background work, then your half job is done for the day. But, apart from all these major-minor stuff, you need to act more smartly to figure out is he/she faking something to you. Many people fake about a lot of things when they meet someone for the first time. They fake about a lot of things be it about their job, personality, thoughts, ideologies and something else. There are chances that you feel attracted with their personality, thoughts and later on regret about your decision. Here, we are sharing some important things to notice when you are meeting someone for the first time in arranged marriage meeting.
Duplicate happiness: When you meet someone for the first time for arranged marriage meeting, you feel that the other person is showing he/she is too happy to see you. They show the over doze of their happiness. This is true that you feel excited and nervous at the same when you meet someone for the first time. It is a kind of mix feeling, but if the other person is showing that he/she is too happy to see you or overwhelmed to meet you, then he/she must be faking about their happiness.
Fake smile: Big, bigger, biggest this is what you noticed about their smile when you meet him/her for the first time. If he/she is smiling a lot and showing that she is very happy with this meeting, then there are chances that he/she is giving you a fake smile. Pay more attention to the facial expressions while he/she smiles. If his/her eyes getting smaller with the smile, then no doubt it is the real magical smile, but it is a fake one, then there will be no changes in the size of the eyes.
Showing what they are not: Many people pretend a lot about their personality and other things. They tell you many things, which they actually don’t believe in or feel strong about it. They tell you things and stories what they believe, but actually in their real life they are not even close to it. So, be attentive and a good observer while discussing with him/her something.
To be more idealistic: When you meet someone for the first time there are many things that you said out of emotions or to make your impression. But, actually you don’t believe in such things. You should always focus on things what he/she shares with you. Is he/she telling you things or ideas that are actually not possible to follow in your day-to-day life? So, be a smart observer while discussing your expectations, future plans and other things about your future.
Over concern: He/she is meeting you for the first time and showing over concern about you and your life. Is he/she asking questions about how you commute daily? How you manage things at your own? Does he/she ask you to drop you somewhere or pick from somewhere? If he/she showing over concern about your personal life in the first meeting, then it better to be more cautious about discussing things with him/her. It might be he/she will use the same information against you in the future. Therefore, showing genuine concern is good, but showing over concern to dig information from you is not right approach to start a new relationship.
More cool and updated: Is he/she trying to be more cool in front of you? Is he/she showing that they are least bothered about some issues that might affect your overall decision making process? There are two things which might be possible in such a situation that either he/she is genuinely cool or just pretending to be cool in the first meeting. If he/she is showing that he/she is very much updated and flaunting their ideas like anything, then better be cautious because such people are self-obsessed. So, be more attentive when you meet someone for the first time. Don’t get impressed just because he/she is pretending to be cool about things and circumstances.
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